Low self-esteem problem :(

I'm sixteen and since I was 14 I was always told by people I don't know that I'm beautiful and that I should be a model and all this other stuff that you would think would make me really happy.

however, at my scchool people barely pay any attension...

me. and all these ugly fat girls have these perfect sounding boyfriends and there I am never had a real boyfriend, tall and thin and people don't even give me the time of day.

and I like most of the stuff about me its just that people kind of give me weird looks when I try to be me.

what do I do?
why aren't guys attracted to me?

I have literaly had this same prob all me life im curently a 12th grader and I havent had a girl friend since 7th grade and yet im always being told how good looking I am and what beautiful eyes I have and how I should be a modle or a poster boy but it seems like noone actualy likes me and as of right now I have icredably low self asteem. it probly had a lot to do with how shy I was and still am. the best advice I can give you is to not be afraid to go out there an have some fun with life dont be shy if you are. its not worth it. I've regreted my entire life but I've been so shy for so long thats its toolate for me to change. its not for you

and all these ugly fat girls have these perfect sounding boyfriends

That's why right there.

well I mean not really ugly and fat. I guess I kinda said that from the anger that got kinda built up. thanks for mensioning that, I wouldn't have caught it.

CUS your NOT BEING URSELF...I HAD THE SAME PROBLEM BUT IM SHORT and AVARAGE BUILT...I NEVER HAD A GIRL EVEN THO people SAID I WAS GOOD LOOKING...MOST GIRLS ASKED ME why WAS IT THAT I WAS SINGLE BUT AS I BECAME MOR MYSLEF and CARED LEES and LESS ABOUT what people THOT...I GOT MOR ATTENTION and NOW I TALK TO ANYBODY WIT ANY PROBLEM...BASICALLY JUST DONT MIND what OTHERS THINK CUS THEY ONLY CRITICISE CUS THEY would NEVER DO what you DO...I HAVE SO MUCH KONFIDENCE SINCE I STARTED THINKIN THIS WAY and NOW I've BEEN WIT MY GIRL FOR ABOUT 3 MONTHS and IM NOW MOR CONFIDENTSINCE THEN...GOOD LUK and DONT TRIP you SOUND LIKE A REALLY SWEET GIRL...SURE EVERY1 WILL LIKE U!!

YA I agree with thecoolest, when people find out that you have een trashing other people then they wont like you just be urself and even try sitting with new people at lunch, you could just try sitting next to the so called ugly fat girls that you seen to hate, if people see you sitting next to the people you trashed then they will realize that you didnt mean those things, just dont sit next to them for one day and not get to know them. maybe they will turn out to be those people to give you the time of day.

YA I agree with thecoolest, when people find out that you have een trashing other people then they wont like you just be urself and even try sitting with new people at lunch, you could just try sitting next to the so called ugly fat girls that you seen to hate, if people see you sitting next to the people you trashed then they will realize that you didnt mean those things, just dont sit next to them for one day and not get to know them. maybe they will turn out to be those people to give you the time of day.