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Low self-esteem

Asked by la16love about 1 year ago, 6 answers.

I have been wanting to lose weight since I was 7. I thought if I wasn't prefect I couldnt wear pretty clothes. So I have always wore baggy clothes.
Now that I am older I have learned that haveing a prefect body will never happen because theres no...

such thing.

sine I have grown to always compare my self to other thinner girls I have very low self a steam and confedance. And I need help to break that and feel better if I'm not as thin as the girl next to me.

I'm 15 years 52 and I weigh 132. I am starting to walk 3 miles every morrning and eat 1300 caloires of heathly food.

Any adivce on how to help me with me self a steam? Or anything else.
thank you so much.

Answered by funadvice on Jul 12, 2008, 11:52PM
53906 answers

hey!
when I was around your age I felt the same way I was skinny
but I felt horrible so I stoped eating I became anorexic
I had to stop my carreer because I just looked horrible I was all skins
bones I was so close to dieing but a miracle saved me
ever since then I realized I cant be perfect im only human
respect urself your body dont let anyone tell you otherwise
be urself youll be happy if you need anything else please do
contact me

Anahi

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Answered by volleeit18 on Jul 12, 2008, 07:19PM
1152 answers

its not that bad its only a little over average you shudnt compare urself to others and your on teh correct track when you said there were no such things as perfect bodies...keep it up thou because your new body plan shud work

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Answered by funadvice on Jul 12, 2008, 07:57PM
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Girrrlll you are fine-132 @ 15 means your thick! lol! but just tone up and feel better about yourself and you'll be fine!

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Answered by zero1225 on Jul 12, 2008, 09:00PM
13 answers

hey..no one is perfect...you shouldnt stress about what you look like...it will be ok

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Answered by danimarie88 on Jul 15, 2008, 01:07AM
20 answers

you have to realize that those girls in the magazines probly eat a celery stick a day and drink laxatives theyre not real women ...your 15 and this is your prime teen years enjoy it all and dont stress 132 at 5'2 isnt ad at all and if your not satisfied dont take drastic measures just excerise and eat healthy and a lot of men like girls with curves. in the end the only person you have to make happy is yourself stay strong and good luck - dani