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Love or lust

Asked by isisireland 7 months ago, 2 answers.

I am having issue also. An old flame whom I will always love even thou I love my husband came back into my life a few months back on a friednship site. I looked for him for many years, I thought he was kiled over seas. Well we talked for months on phone....

he lived on other side of the usa. He came back into town to see friends and family but told me to see me. it had been 12 years. I have ben married 9 years and love my husband but we have had problems. I never have cheated on him till now. never would even think about it. yet when this old love came over and hubby let him spend the night while he was at work. we cuddled for hours on sofa then one thing led to another . I do not feel guilty for I know hubby cheated in past. I also still love this man never will stop..was like time had not passed us by.This person will always be in my heart. I know they do not want relationship. Yet we want to be togther. I do not know what to do. Hubby says he cna stay here any time when he is at work. makes me feel as if he knows and does not care. In fact he is letting me go out with him this weekend and go out of town and get hotel wiht him and a friend. I am wondering does he even care why would he let me. I know once I get around old flame I will never be able to control myself but I want to see him. he will be moving in next door with a friend. I love him and my husband but its different kind of love.

lens flare Answered by captainassassin on Apr 17, 2009, 10:13AM
6193 answers

So... do you want advice on? Your lack of self-control? Your lack of guilt or remorse?

It sounds to me like your marriage is a farce... there's no trust... and apparently, no fidelity either.

again me Answered by gris on Apr 17, 2009, 10:15AM
195 answers

YoUR HUSBAND THOSE LOVE YOU BUT HE KNOWS YOU GUYS BEEN MARRIED FOR NINE YEARS,, SO I THINK HE NOWS HE CAN TRUST YOU.. hE MAY ALSO BE TESTING YOU TO SEE WHAT YOU DECIDE TO DO... yOU ARE A MARRIED WOMAN NOW YOU SHOULD LET YOUR PAST GO AND TRY TO BE HAPPY WITH YOUR HUSBAND. BECAUSE AT THE MOMMENT YOU DONT FEEL BAD BUT LATER YOU WOULD.. you CANT RUINED A NINE YEAR RELATIONSHY FOR AN OLD FLAME THAT IS NOW IN THE PICTURE THATS MY OPINION happy

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