Love him or leave him ? help!!

I was with my boyfriend three years on and off and he split up with me a couple of weeks ago because he has too much on his mind because he lost a really close family member.. I really love him more than anythink. We still see each ohter nearlly everyday...

and we still have sex I still sleep at his house and he stops at mine..
I know its silly but sometimes I just wish I got pregnant soo he would stay with me ,, well and because I love kids to. We have never used anything since day one and I have had check ups and im all clear but I cannot get pregnant. He goes on his xbox 360 and videochats to people which includes showing himself, and when I confront him he says were not together anyway. I really love him and hes the only person I've ever slept with. I really love him and think sharing him is better than nothing.. Everyone says im really pretty and I know two boys who want to go out with me who are really sweet but why cant I get him out me head please help me im soo confused /3 x

babe, leave him!
he's just using you and having
sex with you until he wants..if he's
having those video chats and whatnot
and tells you pretty much to mind your own buisness
then he's not worth it bc if he cared about you too then he would
ignore the other people and pay attention to you.
the mistake of every girl is that at a certain point
she doesnt know how valuable she is.
your worth so much better!
you should take a chance with one of these guys you mentioned,
the reason why you cant get this guy outta your head is bc u've
been with him for 3 years and its nto that easy to kick
someone out of your life or get them outta your mind when they've been in there for
soo long. so it takes time.
like they say time heals wounds..all it needs is time.

best of wishes.

thanks...
he says he dont know what he wants and that he loves me
his brother dies not so long ago and its really messed up his head he used too treat me like a princess but know everythink has changed. its soo hard too say goobye but I dont know howmuch more I can take x

I agree ^ you should leave him!
you are worth so much more and you DESERVE to be happy
It may be hard to get him out of your head, I was once in a relationship
like that, I knew he was using me and didnt love me but it wasso hard
to break up with him! Once I did I felt better but I still thought
bout him often, and when I was around him my heart went crazy. But soon I realized what kind of guy he really was and the feelings went away.
But this guy is not worth it because your not happy
the right guy will make you feel like a princess in every way

hope this helps! good luck!

x

You need to leave him and give yourself some space. Take a month or so off from the relationship or whatever you want to call it that you have with him and think about where you are heading. You need to gain some of YOUR confidence back and life YOUR life...it shouldn't be about him, it should be about you.

He sounds like he is using you and having sex with him is just really overcomplicating everything for you. You certainly deserve better. Also if he really loved you he wouldn't be using you and he wouldn't be cheating on you (which is what he is doing).

So my advice will be to leave him and take some time for yourself...and not speak to him or see him at all in that time.

thanks defoo gonna take your advice xx

Weather your in love or not, you have to move on
it seems like he is using you for sex!! Hes keeping
you around but still messing around with other people
He doesnt really care if you leave or nto