Love,boyfriend, and hearts matter

ok well me and my boyfriend will have been going out for like almost 2 weeks we were going out before but well we had to get some time off because his ex lady was pregnant and he said he wanted to be responsible, so well I understood, I still loved him so we decided to be friends and still see each other now we're back again , he said his ex and him had resentment for each other so I guess it didnt work out but then again he did said that she cheated on him with another guy so why would he think thats his kid now we back and well we played a little game yesterday and I asked him important questions he answer that I way I wanted him too, now my thing is that he berly has time for me and that is what I dont like, he works from 8 to 5pm and then mondays and wednsday and fridays he has school, his only days free are tuesdays and thursday but he said he has jobs too,weird huh? but anywayswe made two attemps to meet this week and he couldnt make none of them,I've told him that im tired of this sh*t that I want something serious and stable, he seem ok with that he did tell me that starting next week we will see each other more often that I would see him everyday for a lil while at least, he tells me he loves and I do too and well I feel he does and I dont feel doubt but sometimes I think im just playing myself for believe everything he says, but I mean to be trusted you need to trust so that what im doing, now then again if he didnt he would never gotten back with me right? I really need help, ok I know I may get you people tired with the same guy but well I need help and I just do updates on what going on so you can help me,please friends of mine help me I need to know exactly what I should do, I did ask him why he loved love me and he said ' because I've never done him wrong and because I've always been there for him like no one before and I have earned his love, then I asked him if he could describe me in one word what would it be he said'PRECIOUS' I thouhgt it was very very very sweet but thtas cause I love him ok people im leaving this to your wise heads to help me 'mwa' (thats a friend kiss to whoever helps me out) ok well take care everybody

You're 15 and he already has a baby. Move on to someone with less baggage who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated, and will give you time as well as respect

You asked for advice then want to shoot the messanger. We're trying to be honest with you, if you wanted us to say what you wanted to hear then you'd have said 'this is what I want to hear, please tell me this' or you'd have asked your girlfriends

You need to figure out, now in general, what you can live with and what you can't live without. Anyone who marrys the person they dated at 15 will end in divorce, want proof ? ask my husband about his ex wife. You NEED and DESERVE to have trust, communication, commitment. Having commitment means making time for the person you're supposed to be seeing. If all you're doing is chasing him, and he's always running, that should give you a clue.

I think you ARE ready for a commitment and this guy is NOT the guy to give it to you, so find someone who will.

Being desrcibed in one word as Precious is like being told you're hot or sexy instead of beautiful. I think Precious sounds like the way you describe a baby or a dog, not someone you 'love'

If you've been dating so short of a time and are already hitting bumps then I'd say there's a problem. At the age of 15 there is more to life than just going out and your status. He obviously is going to school and working, and if you were a longtime live in relationship I could see the argument about him not having time for you. But you're not. (sorry if I sound like a *****! Just being honest!) Maybe you should turn your focus on other things and hook up with him later.

your not helping me fro s**t hun see we've been knowing each other for almost a whole year, and just cause im 15 dont mean s**t I do have feeling and I can love and I am ready for commitment why do you people always say this type of things you dont help but make feel people inferior of what they can do or what they cant do

OK NOW THAT WHAT I WANTED TO READ SEE NOW THIS TYPE OFTHINGS CAN REALLY HELP SOMEBODY INSTEAD OF WHAT SOME PEOPLE BE POSTING HERE WELL THANK YOU AND your RIGHT I DO DESREVE AND IM probably BEING IMATURE FOR GOING THROUGH ALL OF THIS MANI SWEARE IS FUNNY WHAT YOU CAN REALIZE WHEN PEOPLE KNOW HOW TO PUT IT IN your FACE WELL THANK YOU GIRL YOU HAVE BEEN A GOOD A*S HELP,WOW I JUST REALIZED HOW BAD I HAD IT BUT WELL I GUESS IMA TRY TO TAKE THIS ADVICE EVN THOUGH IS GOING TO BE SUPER HARD BUT WELL IS BETTER TO LEAVE A PERSON THAT YOU LOVE THEN TO BE WITH SOMEONE THAT WILL NEVER TREAT YOU AS YOU DESRVE WELL THANK YOU GIRLS AND SORRY FOR MY IMATURITY EARLIER, IS JUST THAT SOMETIMES WHEN ARE SEEKING FOR SOMETHING AND YOU DONT GET WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR YOU CAN GET OFF your GEARS BUT THANKS AND SORRY ONCE AGAIN WELL I HOPE MORE PEOPLE CAN HELP ME WITH THIS

Hey. Im here 4 ya. Well its good that he has a job and he is still trying to c you as much as he can. Maybe you can get a job so you wont feel so left and u won't have to wait for him. Even for your anniversary, you can be able to buy him a nice gift and he can get you a nice gift. A relationship is based on trust and u got that down. you have an idea of what to do, just listen to your heart.

what is there 2 commit to if you barely see him?? has he came around more?

thank you carebear but hun honestly you are the last one to answer about commitment you can even choose when it come s to guys

if I had to I could. I nvr said I was redi to commit that dont mean I cant talk about it

my porblem has nothing to deal with urs totaly diff situations

whatever girl plus anyways you didnt help but thanks for trying lol

omg I didnt help your problem.... so what?

look im not here to fight plus hun just stop what the f*** is your problem

k

pimpette you seem to know what im saying and thank you a lot