Love at first sight

I am not really writing for advice, maybe I am.. I just wanted to know what your theory is on love at first sight. None of my ex boyfriends ever really appealed to me at first, but the guy I am seeing at moment absolutely dazzled me the moment we met. I...

am talking dream man here. Honestly... I felt like I was a character in a romance novel. It was very magic, surreal even. We have been seeing eachother for only 4 months and I am confused because that in love feeling has disappeared. Now my question is do you think that was a sign of lust only or should I trust it to be a sign of true love, because I have had lovely relationships with men that have grown on me over time, but then again they never lasted did they.

i know what you mean it wad love at first sight when i first saw my now ex (i still love her) the most important thing is if you really feel like this go for it coz youll regret it if you dont you need to find what you fell in love with him for and hold on to that for dear life i made the mistake of letting go and now i really regret it i want my ex back but she is now seeing someone else remember what attracted you to him in the first place and you wont go wrong love burnsey xxx :-D

Which lasts longer: A house made of straw, that only takes a few minutes to build, or one made of brick that takes many months to build? Sometimes dazzling attractions can last a whole lifetime, but they almost never do, and not unless you're willing to MAKE it last. The feeling will always come and go, even in the most perfect romance there is. You should think of it as a bonus, rather than an essential part of your relationship.

Now that that dazzled feeling is gone, it's time to think sensibly about how you feel for this person. Does he care for you? Unless you can think of something specific that's wrong, if I were you, I'd try giving a little bit more to the relationship. Not a lot necessarily, but more than usual. Bake him a cake, or spend some time doing something new with him. See where it goes.

No two relationships are the same. This may be the one you can be happy with for the rest of your life, and maybe it's not. Once the newness wears off, then you can be smarter about it.