What are the odds that we still last till we're married?

Would someone really not believe that I'm in love.

I am 14 and my boyfriend is 14. I love him so much.

Were trying to beat the odds together.

What are the odds that we still last tell were married?

It can happen.
Its just hard for others to believe because almost every 14-year-old says that and how often does it actually happen? Not very often. I hope the best for you though.

1 out of 10 chance of making it. Our first love experiences are the learning grounds where we discover intense satisfaction as well as in some cases intense disappointment. We soon learn that not all love relationships will last a life time as we may have hoped. Sometimes the feelings we had for another person seem to just fade away. If the relationship ends we go through a period of adjustment or a kind of healing and learning phase. Keep in mind, that these experiences have everything to do with our own personalities as well as the other persons unique traits. The other person may simply fall out of love for one reason or another.

Because of the need to love and be loved, we eventually find ourselves rebounding back for another try. As time passes we become more experienced with mate selection and the complexities of courtship. We tend to set higher standards before we allow ourselves to be open or vulnerable to be hurt. We are a little more cautious and want to slow things down, unlike the days of our first love encounters. At some point, we have what is referred to as mature love. With mature love we find ourselves more at ease with handling ourselves and the way we treat the other person. With the ideal person, both of you can grow together in harmony while supporting each others needs as best you can. We understand eventually, that you can't control or own another person, nor can you force them to love you in return.

Almost all early relationships are, not surprisingly, short-lived--and a good thing too. If the purpose is to pick a mate for life, you're hardly likely to find a suitable one on your very first go.
'Kids don't really have a sense of working to preserve a relationship,' 'Adolescence is a time for experimentation.'
You have to work at a relationship to make it good. But more importantly, choosing someone to commit to for the rest of your life isn’t simply a “decision of the heart.” It’s a meeting of the heart and the brain. Your values, goals in life and perspective of commitment all must be in sync, too. Remember that love is not enough to sustain a relationship.

The chances are small. You grow into different directions from that age. I think back to the people I knew when I was 14 and many of them I loved. Met back up with some, was shocked. Enjoy what you have now, and don't think about tomorrow too much.

I know that everyone doesn't believe. Or most people. But they don't know us. We are so comfortable with eachother. We have been going out for almost 6 months. Most middle school relationships dont last that long. But I know that we really love and care for eachother like I couldn't even imagine before him.

Nobody doubts that you are in love.

Well a lot of adults think that 'kids' are not fully accuipt with the emotions of love. That you have to be ready for everything that has to do with love. But I believe that at any age...you can be in love. There is no one kind of love. Everyone feels it differently...

you might think you are in love but you might move on!!

I believe you! I'm 13, my guy's 13, we've been together for one year and we plan on getting married one day, and having a life together.
I know how you feel, but remember, a lot of times people will try and break you guys up, and you'll face a lot of obsticiles in the future, but if you make it past all that, it will only make you stronger.

IF this is TRUE love and you guys are ment to be, than don't worry about it cause you'll make it. [:

good luck to both of you [:

hmm. adults dont really seem to be very understanding in situations like this so I dont know wht to tell you about that bt teen love is so much fun so just ignore them & do wht you feel like you might last a lonnnggg time.

Why do young teens think that adults dont understand when it comes to love...for your information we were teens too, and we DO know what your feeling!

You will understand that as you grow, your needs change. You become attracted to different qualities in a person. You learn what you like about some people and what you don’t like. So, as you get older, the people you’re attracted to will likely change. Plus, when you’re young, love interests are usually about practicing and experimenting. You’re learning how to relate to someone you’re attracted to.

In our teens — especially for guys — relationships are mainly about physical attraction. But by the time guys reach 20 or so, they rate a person's inner qualities as most important. Teen girls emphasize closeness as most important — although they don't mind if a potential love interest is cute too!

When people first experience falling in love, it often starts as attraction. Sexual feelings can also be a part of this attraction. People at this stage might daydream about a crush or a new boyfriend or girlfriend. They may doodle the person's name or think of their special someone while a particular song is playing.

It sure feels like love. But it's not love yet. It hasn't had time to grow into emotional closeness that's needed for love. Because feelings of attraction and sexual interest are new, and they're directed at a person we want a relationship with, it's not surprising we confuse attraction with love. It's all so intense, exciting, and hard to sort out.

hmmm...well...
me and my guy were together at 13.
its been 3 years and we cant wait till were 18.
2 more years, so we can live together. I believe...
its possible...but its hard.
^_^ whoever said love was easy? ahahaha. good luck!