How can you do something like this to someone you love?

k,im so stressed out at my bf i cant see straight ne more. lately i found a guy friend,just a friend on mine online, weve been talkin. good friends. b4 i wasnt talking to him bc i didnt see him in yhrs,have his number, or know he had net. my bf thrives...

off of when im jealous. says it makes him feel loved by me. when i feel i shouldnt have to be a jealous crazy person for someone to feel loved.lol wrong. ne ways a girl friend on his asked if they could hang out. i didnt wanna say yes,but know i need to stop being controlling,its not good for ne one and wanted to be nice its his friend. so,i guess it turned out to all be a setup btw the both of them. they thought i would say no bc i would be so jealous or w/e. supp(for pretend) they never met up, she didnt buy him a birthday present,they didnt have coffee at a shop,or w/e, she didnt stay in a diff room but in the same hotel,she supp wasnt wearin underwear all night,showed up in a short skirt and stuff,then basically wanted to have sex with him all night bc she was lonely. all that was pretend just to make me upset and jealous. now tell me how u can do nething like that to someone u love,just bc they have a guy friend and you got jealous? isnt that messed up! i told him bc it isnt the 1st pretend thing i would never forgive them for what they did and it isnt the 1st time a f friend of his talked him into doing something so mean. what should i do? im goin crazy so mad at him right now. someone please help. also he thinks that with all the probs we've been having marriage would solve that bc its harder to get a divorce then just breakup. yeah right,im not dumb he just wants me on a tighter leash! should i stay with him bc i do love him and stuff,just drives me crazy lol or you think things will never change. he says hes gonna change or w/e,but like i said i cant seem to forgive him for hurting me so much bc i wouldnt do something so hurtful like that to ne one. please help me out! thanks

Dear juniorsgirls,
Okay, what part of this relationship is good??? There is nothing in this relationship that is healthy. We love a lot of people but that doesn't mean we should stay in a relationship with them. You know we can't change others and if we are in a relationship that we want others to change then we need to get out...it is clear from your thread that you know it's not good. If you need someone to tell you to move on, then I'm telling you...move on, get out. It will only get worse.
Sue...good luck

I'm sorry girl but he's an assh...I would definetly brake up w/him...wat if he does it again n this time he does for real...someone that loves someone does not do that...so I think u should break up w/him he's not worth it...

thanks girls. we broke up yesterday.

how do you delete a question?lol

I'll lock it for you...if you want it deleted funmail...thedude.
Sue...good luck