Love and family

I have just broke up with my partner of 10 years we have to children together and I love him dearly I can't stop crying and I can't cope with my children he still has everyday contact with them. and he is now with sombody else. I know he is making a mistake and I wonder if I should wait for him. I feel like I am going to have a breakdown and I can't afford to do this because I have brilliant job and two special children in my life. people keep telling me thats it is his lose and he will realise this soon but I just want him to come home. what am I to do

I went through the same thing, and my life came together only after I met some one else. Don't go looking in the wrong place for a partner(bars and such), you may even try visiting a local church or trusted friends.