What do you think of 13-year-olds in love?

what do you think of 13 year olds having sex or doing other things if they are truely in love? I really lve this girl and she loves me. I know what do but I just want to get some opinions on this...

well im 15 and iam recently in a relationship with a 18 year old. we really love each other. and we both told each other that we feel something we never felt before. so we've been going on for 7 months [so far] and I lost my virginity to him not to long ago. and despite me loving him with all my heart...I sometimes wish I would've waited. so im just telling you think about it before you do anything and make sure its what you both want okay..and if you need anything else jux let me know

well you dont have to have sex because your inlove
and your only 13 ...dats pretty young I lost mines at
that age well close to being 14 anyways me and him didnt last long after
My sister who is currently my age ...well yea anyways lost hers and now is preggo
and her boyfriend left her soo think about what your doing and are you ready

I would DEFINITELY say wait more time to solidify your relationship. You're 13 so you and her are just figuring out yourselves, you know? Middle school is when you realize who you are fundamentally. Adding sex into that equation, even if you are completely in love would make things wicked confusing for both of you. I mean, it'll change your relationship somehow. Think about the possibility of it changing for the worse. Whats the harm in waiting if you really love her?
PLUS there are tons of stuff to do with a girl before having sex. Explore those first if you must!

I tihnk at 13 it's ok, to be in love. But just cause you love her, doesn't mean you have to have sex with her. Show her you love her in other ways.
Send her flowers for o reason.
Kiss her just because. Or hold her just cause.Stuff like that. She'll appreciate you a lot more if you just want her, and not in her pants.

If she got pregnant at thirteen she could be very hurt. Childbirth is not something that just happens. Your body isn't finished developing even essentially until you are fifteen or sixteen. If she gave birth to a child at her age SHE COULD DIE. Then what have you done to the girl that you are in love with? You have murdered her purely for the sake of your own sexual pleasure. Yes, having a child at thirteen is survivable but no matter what she will be damaged. You have all the time in the world to have sex with her. Her vaginal nerves won't finish developing until she is fifteen or sixteen either, so sex won't even feel that good. You want her first time to be amazing don't you? Then wait, take your time. If you feel bored with what you are doing now with her, or like you aren't moving on quickly enough, I have news for you. Once you have sex, after the first month or two, you will become bored and stuck feeling with that as well, and then you will become bored with her. Wait until you content just being with her. And if you already are there is no reason to risk her death for sex. Good luck.

well I dont believe in sex before marriage but I Do believe in True LOve if you love your boyfriend and he loves you he will be willing to wait

I think that at thirteen, fifteen even eighteen we are too young to know what 'love is' we havent been out and about enough to know the difference we just think that well its better then the first guy so it must be true love or he makes me smile so it must be true love but everytime we say 'I love you' it desensatizes it. that phrase has stopped meaning a lot and has started just becoming something we say out of habbit

I think you're trying to come up with a justification to have sex, be honest.

ok, 13 year olds are constantly in love. not joking my best friend has been in true love with 4 guys in 3 months. so my advice is to cool it, there is no need to have sex right now. wait till your older. what if she gets pregnant? would you be willing to stay and raise a kis with her?

I think that it's a great idea for you to start casually dating at 13. When I mean 'casual' I'm thinking of hanging out, watching movies, taking walks. The sooner you find out what you like in a person, the more confident you will be when you find the right one.

Love does not have an start age or an age limit. However, there are types of love and you need to understand which ones are which. One of the ways you can learn this is through casually dating people.

Part of dating is experimenting sexually. In my opinion it's better to wait until you're dating someone for a while before you make any commitments sexually. This also means that you are in a position to commit your time, effort and compete emotional attention to this person. You may feel that you can do this, but a real relationship is tough, hard dirty work--most the time you're too tired to even think about sex!

Also, don't feel you have to rush. I'm a in my 20's and a huge handful of my friends have never had sex and their lives are not hurt by this in any way. In fact, it is a blessing that they've held on this long!

Personally, I think you should wait to have sex. It's a huge commitment like a relationship is. Yes, you can rationalize that it's just a physical action but you must not ignore the emotional part that accompanies it. What if you end up realizing that you don't like this person? How will you tell her in a few months from now that you don't want to be with her? How do you think she will feel? Do you think she would feel used? If she dumps you, do you think you would feel used? All things come to an end, and while you should enjoy this while you can, you also must be realistic and understand that you will most likely not marry this person.

Also, when you do find another person, how will you explain to them that you had sex at 13 or that you have had sex with multiple people? When you reach marriageable age, telling someone that you started having sex at 13 sounds really awful and people WILL judge you in a very negative way if you ever tell them this.

Also, think about politics. This is bound to get out. People will know--your parents will find out (or they'll suspect, they're not dumb, they have sex all the time). How will you feel if people tease you? How will your parents feel--your friends?

You also want to make sure that you know everything about sex. What are the consequences? Has she had sex before? If she has, does she have STD's? Has she ever been tested? Have you been tested?

This is your life and you need to make mistakes but you must realize that some mistakes are irreversible and become life long consequences. No one can tell you what to do, and the choices you make are because you choose them. If you make a choice to enter an adult situation, you must accept the responsibilities that come along with the consequences. If you have a child with her, think about trying to raise it alone. If you catch an STD, like genital warts (Very common, a strand of Herpes, usually Herpes Simplex 2), how are you going to tell your parents that you need to go to the doctor to get them removed from your pen*s?

Remember that you're going to be living in your house for another five or more years and the choices you make affect the people you live with and they will affect her too.

I personally, would choose not to have sex until at least the end of High School if you *really* can't wait. Wait until you're deeply in love with a committed person. Wait so you can commit to that special someone. After it's gone--it's gone.