Love?

In a relationship for age; is it okay if you are 4 years apart?

whatever you're comfortable with, 4 years isn't horrible just make sure you know what you're getting into

Depends. If both of you are legal adults, then it's fine. If not, then no. I agree with the 'age is just a number' philosophy as long as nobody goes to jail.

considering you're 13, HELL NO it's not o.k.

20 bucks say he's using you.

you cant just assume someone is using you tina.

if your okay its okayy. but realie what your doing

Your only 13. Guys who tend to date very young teens, are looking for an easy target.
Young girls are very easy to manipulate, and older boys know that. Older teens and/or young adults may be further along in maturity, and may expect sexual relations as part of the dating process. This would put you into adult situations at too young an age. This isn't good for you developmentally. I hope your parents are involved in your life, because if they are decent, caring parents, they would NOT allow you to get involved with a 17 yr old. Most 17 yr olds, usually have on thing on their minds!

No, no, honestly I am experinced in dating older guys. Younger boys are too immature for me. I've been talking with this guy for over a year to find out info, ask girls he recently dating and his cousions and brothers that are my age. It's all 100% safe. He doesn't want sex, he know's I'm too young, and he's not like that. He's a really shy boy. He respects everything I do and even supports me. I'm not stupid nor blind, I know which guys to date and which not too. And I'm the only 13 year old that he will date. He first didn't apporve and said I was too young, but he got to know me better and saw I dont look nor act my age. And he likes everything about me and says he wants to find a relationship and I asked him what he wants in one. He name his things, honesty, funny,..etc And I said, well I have those things. Then he asked me what I wanted in a relationship and he said he had it. Plus, I'm 14 in July and he's 17 in August. And were going to the same highschool.