Love?

I've been dating a guy for a month now and he's sooo sweet and all but he told me he loved me after like five days((u cant love someone after 5 days!))!!! He's a great guy and he always wants to hang out with me which is overwhelming! Im not sure if he really likes me or just wants to get in my pants. Like I dont want to doubt him but I can't help but have second thoughts. im sooo confused any advice?

well try saying somthing like this to him when he says I love you. 'well you know I care about you and like you a lot, and I love how you tell me how you feel, but I feel like you should really get to know me more before you say I love you...because we have a lot to learn about each other and it will feel sooo much more special if we wait it out...how do you feel about that?' and have him share how he feels...he may be a littl hurt or embarrassed, but if he gets angry, then thats really immature.

and if it resolves nicely...then you should show him how much you care that he listened to what you had to say...like a kiss and hug...just make him feel better if hes a little hurt.

he has deep admeration, respect, and he's most likely in a state of infactuation with you...he may not be mature enough to articulate it at this point. sex with you would be a peek for him!!! be carefull not to feed his lust...how? being alone all the time...closed quarters...kissing and toughing...yet I must say if he say with out a doubt that he could stay in that same intense state if you were a quadrapalegic(no use of arms or legs) just possibly he may love you!!! ask him this question 'if I didn't have arms would you love me? if you had to clean me after I went to the bath room could you clean me and not see me any different?' ask those questions and the response will speak for itself

Hey there, well this is tough, but my partner and I have been together 2 months now, and like your boyfriend he also told me he loved me after 4-5 days, it shocked the hell outta me, but I believed him, no doubts, and I felt the same, it never crossed my mind that maybe he just wanted to get in my pants...but turns out he didnt anyway lol, he made ME wait til he was ready...so some guys you just cant doubt.

maybe he does love you?
if you trust him...then you will know if hes telling you the truth, if you dont trust him...then like the others said...keep him round but make him wait to be really close to you.

Being I'm not a teenager anymore, I can honestly say that he has NO clue what love is. Sounds like he throws those 3 words around very carelessly. I dated a guy that told me he loved me the 5th day, I was in total shock! I broke it off the following week. You cant possibly love someone in that short amount of time. Its called infatuation. Love usually takes root slowly and grows with time.
** Infatuation leaps into bloom.** >So what about infatuation? That’s when you think of someone all the time, you go out of your way to be around him/her, and you begin to center your priorities around him/her as well.

It’s so easy to get caught up in the wonderful feelings of a new relationship and mistake those feelings for love. New relationships are fun and exciting. The rush of good feelings is very very strong. It does not equal love.