Loseing my virginity...

alright... this week is gonna be me and my boyfriends 6 month anniversary... and were planning on having sex. hes 17... im 14. I've never done it before, but I have used tampons for about 3 months now... im scared! he keeps saying its not gonna hurt but...

all my friends say it does... what should I do?! im gonna have sex but what should I do for the pain,blood,protection, etc...

first of all. you are moving way too fast. you're only 14. you might think you're in love (you're not) and you might think you're ready (you're not) and I promise you, if you do this.. in 3 or 4 years, you will meet that one guy that you TRULY love, and you will regret giving your virginity away so easily.. 6 months isn't even a long enough relationship to know the other person inside and out, but I can't stop you from making this mistake. you will learn on your own.

I'm a guy. but every girl I talk to says it hurts like hell the first time you do it, and there is really nothing you can do.. except maybe use some lube. WEAR A CONDOM.. do NOT let him talk you into doing it without a condom. And remember.. if you start and the pain is unbearable, or you decide you're not ready- ITS OK TO SAY NO... just be smart about this. Sex ruins so many relationships.

it didn't hurt my first time. but yes use protection. you're so young are you sure you're ready?

it only hurts if you aren't wet enough and if you really love him that shouldn't be a problem. No matter what baller33status says you can know what love is at your age just be careful ok?

thanks for the great advice!! im still gonna do it and ill b fine... I just cnt tollerate pain in any wayy thts why I was so scared

I lost my virginity to my boyfriend when I was 13...it hurt a lot, but he took it slow, and let me lead at first...try being on top at first so that you can control how fast you go and how deep, and then switch positions if he wants to be on top...my first time, he laid back and let me take it slow, and once I got over the pain, he went on top...I think that way it doesnt hurt as much...

I lost my virginity at the age of 15 and my husband was 17 years old. This thing is he was my first and I was his. We waited for like a 15 months then I knew I was ready. All my other friends lost theirs a lots earlier. This thing is don't do it because you feel you must or that your the only one act. I just feel you have to do it with someone you love no I dont think you can be sure of that after 6 months.

Yes Girl it hurts a lot and second hurst no so much but the more you do it the better it feels.

what do I do about the blood??

im totally with baller33status on this one...u are wayyy to young im not even gonna give you advice on what to do for pain..u really don't love him..he is just making you think that honestly you probably think we are being harsh but seriously you are sooo gonna regret this I promise you in less then a year you and your boyfriend will break up ..relationshipss at your age don't last...trust me...DONTT DOOO IT!!!

ok yu don't need to love someone to do them..
ok so when I lost it I was 14 im 15 now and yea I was 14 and lost it to the love of my life who was 19
I lost it to him he cheated on me and broke my heart
after we broke I found out he gave me an std
yea none of that was fun bt honestly I don't regret it I always felt my virginity was meant for him
and now we havent tlkd in months bt when I see him my heart beats and I fall in love all over again bt then I feel sick
I've moved on and have a new boyfriend bt I still love him
so yu want regret it bt it will change yur life and sumtimes it can be bad
ok and also because of his age difference itll hurt more if hes more experienced because he want be used to a virgin
I was my exs 2nd virgin his only other one was when he lost it she was a virgin
so years later he don't really remember it so it hurt like fuckin hell he was fast and ruf and it just really hurt... I was sore for a week and I take pain well so I think itll hurt yu way to much...
yu shud just wait

Not much blood just a little. Maybe a couple drips not like you period blood