Loosing feelings on loved ones

Iam married allmost 4years now,last year late I realised that some changes with my wife's behavior.she started to loose feelings for me.when want to hold her she behave deferently/she feels unconfortable.when I want to make love to her she just hold back...

dont allow me to come closer her.

I dont know if the something I do wrong

This is something that you'll need to discuss with her and if that isn't working maybe consider couples counseling. It could be a lot of things.

I think you really need to let her know how your feeling by her actions.. us women get a lot of mood swings so it could be that. just talk to her though and really observe how you feel about her. try being romantic.