Should i dump him because of his short penis?

Asked by crazygal over 2 years ago, 11 answers.

I'm 16, I had a boyfriend who was 17, and he had a long penis (about 6 to 7 inches) and when we have sex, it always reaches deep into me, and I always reached climax.. but we broke up.. now I have a new boyfriend but his penis is short (sigh). He's a...

really nice guy, but I seldom reach orgasm nowadays, what should I do? I like him, but no orgasms anymore?? I've been thinking of going back to my old boyfriend.

buddha? Answered by funguy on Feb 24, 2007, 02:29PM
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I haven't tried any different penises myself, I only have one. I do know however that it takes a lot more than a good sized penis to make a girl reach climax. However I do know that some women like to feel filled while they reach climax. The nerve endings of the vagina only reach around 2 inches into the entrance and so it is not impossible to reach orgasm unless he is grossly smaller than this which is highly unlikely. Also there are other ways besides penetration to achieve satisfaction for yourself. But in the end your own preference is the most important thing. I have had friends with monster penii and buddies with itty bitty willies. Sometimes it is the penis that turns some girls on. Most of the time it is other things.

Don't dump him for his poor size. Dump him because you don't feel that you are going anywhere, or because he is rude to your friends, or he is too clingy.

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Me Answered by locoluna on Feb 21, 2007, 07:44PM
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Try different positions and techniques before you give up. Maybe try missionary but put 2 or 3 pillows under you so it raises your pelvis and he can go much deeper, or try doggy style that goes very deep.

If only you could be in my head... Answered by sikashimmer on Feb 21, 2007, 10:07PM
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you can't fit your new bf into the old mold. Sex with each person is going to be different so you need to approach it in a different manner than you did with your ex. Explore new things and I'm sure you'll discover some new techniques that work for the two of you.

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sexy me Answered by tynellie on Feb 22, 2007, 07:34AM
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I think that if you like him that should be enough to have patient with him you have try various positions because sex with each persons will be different. And i'm sure that after exploring each other you will find that he is better at some positions than your ex.But i dont think you should dump him because he is short because it's not the size of the gun but the way you use it.

~ Answered by rae14 on Feb 22, 2007, 07:57AM
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you just need to try different positions... i had the same problem with my ex.. i went from a 8 inch to a 5 inch... at first i never climaxed with the 5 incher... but we tried different positions and now sex is amazing.... dont break up with your current bf bc of his penis size.

get e up Answered by escortagino on Feb 22, 2007, 08:49AM
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Length isn't as important as girth and usage. The majority of the sensation a woman experiances is within the first inch so any length will do. There are adjustments that could be made in your positions etc as has already been explained by gals with experiance. I have only had this one I was given to judge by. Further help could be found at sexinfo101.com. Good luck. Now a days one of the first 20 questions a gal asks a guy is How big is it? Size of breasts and penis are not always the best sign of sexuality or reason for attraction. Who knows, your next bf might be well hung and unable to perform. Enjoy the moment.

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New New Hair cut Answered by ctatum89 on Oct 30, 2007, 02:20AM
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Well, you shouldnt just dump him because of his size. But, idk if you do this already, stimulate your clitoris while you are having sex and it may help out alot. Ive made girls orgasm just by doing that alone so just give it a few more tries because if hes a nice guy he shouldnt just dump him like that. Coming from a guy, i was dumped because i was told my penis was too small it would cause some problems lol. so gl

New New Hair cut Answered by ctatum89 on Oct 30, 2007, 02:22AM
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Coming from a guy, If I was dumped...**sry for the typo lol

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Dec 10, 2007, 12:07PM
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ok...I wouldnt go as far to say that you should go back to your old b/f. thats just NOT a good idea. trust me. But I personally think sex is a very important factor in a relationship. If this guy isnt satisfying you, your going to want someone who does as time moves on. Maybe you should just date for a while and see whats out there. My guess is that you're young enough where you can accomplish this with no problem. Please just be safe. I dont want to be responsible for random babies being born. lol

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Dec 10, 2007, 12:09PM
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oh and yes...if you havnt explored other positions and techniques yet, DEFINITELY give it a try. you may be pleasantly surprised.

Answered by pigdog on Oct 20, 2008, 01:00PM
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A woman professor of anatomy told her class, Two-thirds of the nerves of the vagina are in the outer one-third of it. She added, But the remaining one-third that are deep in the vagina are the ones that will make her climax.

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