How can I make sex less painful?

I want to have s*x so what is a way to make it less painful...AND about protection what do I do besides a condom and birth control???

PLEASE HELP ME

Thanx,
youto18

If you are not familiar with the variety of methods of contraception, then perhaps you
are not ready for s*x.

You're not ready.

Well when your not comfortbale when you have sexual intercourse it can be painful, other resaons can be if you aren't relaxed either. Do a lot of kissing and touching if that makes you aroused and will relax you. but if it's your first time, then that can be another reason, after a few times youv'e done it the pain should ease.

Please dont be sexually intimate if your not ready to be, if your being pressured, and your partner doesn't want you to use protection.

Protection is vital to protect against STI's, STD's and HIV and pregnancy etc.

Types of protection you can use are, condoms, the pill, the coil, or you can ask your family planning services of other types of protection and should be free of charge and will be kept strictly confidential.

(please note that ONLY condoms will protect against STI's, STD's and HIV, they may be a bother to use but they come in handy).

um sex is never sopost to hurt
like for real
in less there liek a foot
but its not sopost to hurt
and as the condom thing
you can also have the pach
the shot theres a lot of dif things

well they explained much but you know if it hurts when you are going in then maybe a bit of oral would be helpful I mean like him fingering you before you start..a finger at a time..will loosen it up a bit and then once your ready go ahead.
but I agree wit aaliyah you should do a lot of for*play before you get started and dont let pressure take over u..this is your body..not theirs..and the cond*mn thing..well..u really need it if you dont want to have a kid..not that it results in everytime you guys do it..but maybe telling him to pull out before he comes could help

but warning..that doesnt work all the time..prec*m also happens..so cond*ms is your best choice

Sex should never hurt, first time or otherwise. If it does, it means something is not quite right.

The most common cause of pain during sex is lack of lubrication. A lot of first timers have pain simply because they don't know about their own body. They might not know that lubrication is necessary, or that their body is making it, or how to tell if they have enough of it. Also, if they are nervous, they might not be making as much.

The second most common cause of pain is being tense and nervous. That makes the vagina clench shut and can make sex painful.

So if you think sex is supposed to hurt, then I would suggest not having it for a while. If you think that, it's an indication that you do not know enough about your own body to be having sex in a safe or responsible way.

For your second question, condoms are a form of birth control. Using a condom and another form of birth control (often the pill) would be enough protection.