Large clit

I have a larger then normal clit. and my new boyfriend was taking the piss out of a woman on a porn website who had a clit around the same size as me, now im really insecure about my vigina. and I want to have sex with him. I feel down about the fact...

that I cant actually do anything about it. does a womans clit size make a difference to sex? and why do men not like large clits?

I too have a Large clit, but along with that~I have lips that are good size. I know it would look funny if my lips were smaller~but in a mans view/opinion, does that matter? Is it less attractive for us bigger clitlips woman? I have had MANY compliments - but I have a feeling they were just saying that because they knew how very insecure I was about it. There is also some darker coloring to them..but it seems to happen when I am tanning..BUT some color stays~ Im just confused- and sometimes it hinders me from being intimate. I am very tight though..I just feel I look sloppy, and I ALWAYS hear comments from men as well as woman that if the lips or clit are that big or color is different- that their loose woman...SO NOT TRUE..all the woman in my family were made this way..I just want to know the FULL TRUTH lol!
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I have a large clit also. when I get aroused, it ercets to three inches long and 2 inches wide. I love it. my hood is also pierced and when I walk my barbell (the kind that is placed up and down) rubs against it, I get hard all the time! sometimes I have to go in the bathroom and beat off(while in public). ooo it is so beautiful to have a large clit, men do LOVE IT!. ladies never be embarassed for having one. you are blessed cause not to many woman have them. ps my girl-friend and I play somtimes and I always tell her to sit on it---the best

If a clit wasn't supposed to exist it wouldn't have a name. It is a female part. When resting (no matter what the size) and some stay like that even) are generally smaller and fleshy but when aroused or even irritated or uncomfortable with another will engorge with blood. If repelled (which some girls can know about when Mr. wrong is near by, by chemistry and can enlarge and senses say no) Repelling seems more like a muscular resistance. Engorged is a different arousal hot steamy feeling of it and walls all puffy and wet and swollen and if you can orgasm you'll know it is also a point right before the tingle jingle of first stage outer clit orgasm that then the walls are very wanting for the final inner spot finish of the real orgasm. I feel as though it is the foreplay button. Part one then part two.. It brings on the sensations and preps the walls like the whole package. I know through my experiences that if you can get off on the clit part next time try having a dildo up there as you do your clit or someone's fingers gently with finger pads massage on the g area or a guys dick in there as you push on/in your clit with your fingers and go side to side some what fast or any direction. It will get you started as to real orgasming and to what to look for in the sense of Mr. right because to me the g spot is the love spot it will be really wonderful with that very special person. You can still do the other with other people and benefit from the stress release and relaxation of it for your self. Still as far as falling in love with someone I think is beneficial because you will easily know by soul warmth who you can be with with out any outer stimulation. This does not mean that from then on that know one needs to touch but in that finding that comfortable person and their personality and other stuff you won't feel uneasy in anyway. Caress and touch all over for good periods of time with that special person is what real love making is all about with prior lips, tongues, fingers hands, makes it last longer and the feeling go on and on and on for hours...wonderful and other times jump right in with passion!

---As for ones boyfriend not liking clits , he actually is like a child and knows nothing about anatomy yet probably from school books with only a line a for a girl like girls are only supposed to have a hole. Magazines can shoot a lot of photos with relaxed clitted women but not aroused. Still a child and an insecurity and misunderstanding. Some girls are practically clitless others are not. It's the way it is. With the internet now people can really get some education. Guys are all sizes too as for body parts. All girls still have both parts. In one civilization small clitted females were maids and the larger where more motherly or greater spiritual leaders. In another larger girls were killed. If you are smaller, playing a lot with it can start to bring it out by side muscles, if you want that.

ALSO: Just because you can orgasm w/o touch by attraction does not mean that he is the one either but will tell you if he is not by this clarity thing in your thoughts..this is good because just because you have sex with someone does not mean that because you feel funny or different that 'this is the one' I don't believe in waiting w/o any experience and this proverb comes from times w/o protection AND experienced people who know sex because then you will wait about things like really tieing the knot and the test of time after many months or a few years because of really getting to know each other instead of 'programing' I call it..anyone and even almost everyone can get programmed in a not good enough relation It is not love but what is still good to go through to understand 'what is' and who you really are and like wise before marriage and kids.

Don't feel bad, the larger the better. Easier to find and easier to engage with a mouth.

the bigger the better dont feel bad, its alrigt, that guy is crazyy he is missing out on a lot, so no worries hun,
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Big clits freak me out