Ladies, you confuse me.

Ok what is the deal why do women just absolutely love and adore older men >.<? I know a girl that is 20 like me and she is dating a 37 year old man.

And I am SICK! of getting hit on by these young little 15 to 16 year old highschool cheerleaders that dont even have a common brain-cell to even endure with. I REALLy wished I could get with a girl around my age so we can both have a good maturity level and agree on the same subjects for once. It would make the romance way more appealing then what it has been lately. What do you ladies think?

Well I prefer older men myself. I have had a boyfriend younger than me and we just weren't clicking.Things he found amusing I didn't. Things he would want to talk about I just wasnt interested in. Like how he acted with his friends that were his age I'd be like 'oook'. He was kinda too childish for me.

So its like the older the person is, the more mature they are and the more experience they've had interacting with other people. Also, the older guy 'may' have like a steady job, car, house and is able to support himself financially (and not worry about spending money on his girl and that kind of thing)... So I guess some women would be attracted to that...

Lol. my dad is 47 and his new wife is 23, shes the same age as my older brother.

I think she got with him for his money, she had 3 kids already when she met my dad (she was a house cleaner) and they started like hanging out and now their married.
So, I think money and a place to live was in this specific relationship.

As for in general, I think a lot of girls want mature guys, doesn't make sense to me since most my family 40+ is less mature than me lol, like getting waken up at 3am by my grandpa rubbing deodorant on my face 'Hey, you sleepin?'. What I'm saying is they think maturity = less problems, if anything the age range will be trouble. The older they can get (some girls mind you, not all) without it looking completely weird, they WILL go for.

That's my 2 cents.

Well, 1st off, people that are oldfashioned [such as my parents] who'se a decade apart I find acceptable because that was back in the days.

But NOW A DAYS? 16 years old going out with 20+ guys or anything around this are hoebags. They're most likely golddiggin hores [old guys = cars&money] or desperate for attention want to look cool in front of all their friends because their guy is a 'grown man'.

The most a guy has been older than me is by like 2 years. Or not even.

I prefre people my own age too
although sometimes love can be found in a person of any age
but people who look for that are gard to come by
nowdays girls date older men because of there money, and mauratiy
for some reason they like someone whos very mature...I dont get it
but it doesnt bother me, its there life! lol

Dear metalheaddude,
There are several reasons that a woman will date an older man. Sometimes they are looking for a father figure (most times). Sometimes they are looking for a sugar daddy (likes the money). Sometimes they just find males their own age a little immature for them. But there are reasons why one would and it's usually on an individual case and ages. a 20 year old dating a 40 year old would probably be looking for that father figure and or money etc. a 14 year old dating a 20 year old would be falling for the attention and usually ends up being molested etc. A 40 year old dating a 80 year old is probably waiting for the inheritance. So there are several reason why and most do not have anything to do with having things in common but an motive they may not be aware of.
Sue...good luck

To be honest, no offence, but most men's maturity levels are a lot lower then womans and so an older guy for a woman is at the right maturity level compared to the guys their own age. Also it's the sex appeal of their experience. OR it could be for money (gold diggers). Hope this helped x