Ladies, have you ever just had sex?

Have you ever just had sex with a person just because you wanted to have sex? Would you do it again?

As cold as some women can be in that department, I for one, prefer to think that a woman I'm attracted to is attracted to the thought of sex for it's own sake. That doesn't take away from any spiritual or emotional connection you can make with her. I've known a lot of males that were not satisfied at home after marrying their chaste ideal. They didn't plan ahead...

It is admittedly a tightrope. Guys are jealous by nature, and the high libido women in their lives may stoke those fires...even if the thought of betrayal never enters her mind.

I don't partition these women under any label or category. It is a part of their nature and as long as they can love and feel as passionately as is needed...why should they be slandered? Much preferred over a cold hearted harpy, manipulating gold digger, or status seeker...slightly hypocritical...of me...that last part.

Sorry for speaking out of turn, but I think a guy's perspective on this is legitmate as well.

no I don't think those girls have respect for their bodies. I would and could never do that.

I wouldn't call those people ladies thats for sure...

I'd never do that. Blah! Anyone that does is probably a 'garden tool' if you know what I mean.

There is a very low percentage of women that actually do that and most of the time they do not respect themselves or it is a personal thing that gives them the illogic of thinking that it is actually a good idea.

I know one woman that had sex with a guy that she had a childhood crush on but she was not that good looking whenever she was as teenager so when she saw him again she had sex with him because he was still cute.

Women rely on emotions, not on physical attraction.

I guess that makes me a wh*re. HA. When I was single, I had an arrangement with a guy friend to have no strings attached sex every once in a while. Clean, Safe, STD-free sex. I'm married now, so I would not do it again.

Well, I'm a lady and I never have and never will. I agree, they have no respect for themselves and the guys that do it with them are the same. People who do that are just telling themselves and everyone else, hey! I'm so desperate for sex, anyone can just come and use me!

Uhmm I gues this makes me a who*e because I recently ran away from home and I ran to my freinds house and for some reason we just had sex it was my first time and it meant nothing. I don't know. I dont think I will every just have sex again. I think that you should have a strong realationship with the person you are sleeping with and plan to have a future. I defentaly screwed up with that one there.

Having sex for the sake of having sex is not wrong.

It's not whorish, unless you're getting paid for it. It's not disrespectful to yourself UNLESS you didn't enjoy it and just did it for the other person's benefit. If both people loved it, and no-one got pregnant or diseased, or emotionally hurt, then what is the problem?

If you're secure enough with your sexuality and your self worth, you can indulge.

no when I was single I would have sex with anyone because I could and it felt good. I am clean and got checked but I loved to have sex with different men. now I am married and been faithful but there are times where if I could go back I would.