Ladies?

I have a problem... I had sex around 7 times yestreday and it didnt feel as great as I thought it would... my boyfriend loved it but it didnt make me moan or anything... and he feels like he did something wrong... I need help... how do I make it feel better???

he has to explore a bit more to see what exactly gets you going. If you know how to get yourself going (masterbation) then that really help becos you can let him know what turns you on, what spots to touch to get you going. So you need to spend some time showing him what it is that will make you want him more and more.

Dear fairieprincess1718,
Your partner only knows what feels good to you if you tell him. Show him what pleases you.
Sue...good luck

Maybe you were too up tight and not relaxed...I think your boyfriend needs to slow down and learn what your needs are to make you enjoy it. Don't worry...but you both need to have open communications about this so it works and becomes equally enjoyable.

Hey I kinda understand what you're going through but you and your boyfriend have to keep in mind that its not about how many times you have sex but how enjoyable each individual time is for both of you. Quality not Quantity. Also, having sex that many times would probably lead into you just being more and more uncomfortable because for you things would be more dry down there and cause friction if you know what I mean. But definitely talk to your boyfriend and maybe ask him to concentrate on helping you enjoy your sex together. It takes two to have sex and two for it to be enjoyable and you'll be missing out on the experience if you can't enjoy it the same as he does. Definitely talk to him.

well, we tried to make it feel better for me but it didnt wrok... we dont now what we did wrong...and now im wonder what I have to do to make it right... because he had fun but I didnt like it too much it was okay but not googd enough

thats what I thought and thats exactly what I told him because thats what I was thinking.... and he definatly knows how to turn me on so I will tell him that... thank you.

slow down a bit because you only started having sex with him in say november 2006 and its january 2007 you are doing it I little bit much during the december holidays im not saying its bad but its not gud ether just turn it down a notch because your just doing it 4 doing it just be cool ;o)

hay and explore other thing like going down on each other but do show him were your clit is because he might be like a lost puppy and try 69ing and woofy style L8er on but slow down thats a bit much 4 you and 4 him it will make it boring in 1 months tym then you end up not making love 4 2 to 3 week and stuff like that just take it slow Girl just take it slow ;o)

the iud can be why you rnt having fun while you are making love I cant tell you any thing about that so you must find out k ;o)

I don't have an IUD