Knowing when its the right time for sex

My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 months and she sh eis ready for sex, I tell im not ready and I wont wait but when I told her that she got depressed. what can I do to make sure it is the right tiem for sex cause after teens have sex they break...

up in less than a month. so what can I do to make sur eits the right time for sex?

When its the right time, you'll know. You will know because you will be 100% sure that you are ready with no doubts. Since you are doubting that you are ready, means you aren't. She has to understand how important it is to be ready. That whole after teens have sex they break up in less than a month is baloney. I'm not saying it doesn't happen - but be careful what you believe. Before sex in a relationship there have to be a lot of other things; like trust, love, and more important... communication skills. Communication is key in a relationship and you definitely need that before having sex. When you are ready - don't jump right in for sex. For the first while just have oral sex until you are ready for actual sex. She seems to be in a bit of a rush which leads me to believe she has a sexual past. You need to both know each others sexual history because I'm sure you don't want any STD's. Make sure shes on the pill and always carry condoms. Even though you aren't ready yet - I suggest you start carrying them around with you anyways because you never know when a moment comes up and you are ready.

Whenever you feel it's time and whenever you KNOW that you're in love and will be with that person for the rest of your life.

Your girlfriend got depressed because you wouldn't have sex with her? She must be stupid. If she doesn't respect you enough for yous not to have sex, then I really don't think you should even think about it. She is clearly not in love with you, and having sex is something that should only be done when you're in love and, as randyo said, when you know you're going to spend the rest of your life with someone.