Kissing problems

Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 months and haven't kissed yet and our friends keep tellin us we should but I keep telling them that I NEVER make the first move and besides its better for the guy to make the first move and well we really both want to but we never do and I know he's not shy(trust me lol) I just dont know we haven't kissed yet is this like a normal thing for boys or relationships?!?

why are girls so weird about making the first move?! guys think it's hot, it shows confidence and that is SO hot! jesus, just make the move and get a move on before your realtionship gets ruined.

yeah that is kind of a weird thing but maybe he just wants to take it really slow. if I was you I would just make the first move you have gone out for three months so its okay just see what happens when you kiss him if he doesnt kiss you back you got to talk to him!

im the same, I prefer the guy to make the first move, atleast in the beginning but I have been in a similar situation to you where the guy just will not make the first move so maybe its time for you to make it for him! In the few times I have actually made the first move, it has always worked out well!

Ell half made the first move when we first kissed. She had given me a lecture on how to act around the girl that you like and to stop being a wuss about being affectionate a week before that because she had spent the weekend at my house and I took her to the movies and never really got around to kissing her, because she used to make me incredibly nervous. She was genuinely pissed about it because she said if I really liked her I would figure it the f*ck out because we had been really good friends for two years and according to her there was nothing to be nervous about. I thought she would change or something, like suddenly start being nice to me lol. I ramble. Apologies. Anyyway the next weekend I drove her back to my house and we were in my driveway in the dark and I was going to get out of the car, but she stopped me, I think she held the door, not in a mean sort of way but in a please don't make me go through this kind of way. She made it completely unavoidable for me to kiss her. That's a way to be sure if you don't want to actually make the first move. Good luck
Brian D

3 months is a long time my god. And no kissing? do you guys hug? usually a hug
leads to a kiss.

If I were you I would talk about it to him because it might wind up bein one of those things where he thinks your going to kiss him and thats going to be his way of getting an advantage of you.

I think he should have made a move a long time ago like attempted to kiss you, and all you had to of done was either kiss back or let him know, "No I'm not ready for that yet lets take it slower". Hell I've been told that countless times but it eventually led to kissing.

Here ya go:

http://teenadvice.about.com/od/kissing/Kissing_Tips_Techniques.htm

I totally agree with eskimo, why is it that almost all girls wait for the guy to make a move. he's just as nervous as you are! just suck it up and kiss! girls just act lame and wait around for the guy to do everything, and at that rate, nothing will get done! JUST KISS HIM, WHO CARES. he's not going to think you're a psycho if that's what you're afraid of.

lol thanks guys for all your advice youve really helped a lot...and to answer metalheaddude's questions yes we have hugged like everyday and he's kissed me on the cheek bfore but thats not what I was going for ya know lol