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Kind of a controlling boyfriend.

Asked by peace123 3 months ago, 5 answers.
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I love my boyfriend a lot. He's sweet, caring, kind, &he makes me really happy. But there's one situation; he doesn't let me hang out with any of my guy friends. I've always had a lot of guy friends and he pretty much wants me to give them up. He thinks all of them like me, but I know for a fact that that isn't true. So what do I do? He can sneak out at night with his guyfriend to go meet up with girls and hang out with other girls... So why can't I have a fun HARMLESS day with a guyfriend? Especially with one that I've known since I was younger. He says he doesn't want to "share" me. But I'm not his property. He says he doesn't think he's going to lose me to them. So what's the deal? I want to have a full life with my friends, too. But I feel like I can do that without him getting mad at me. Help, please.

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Answered by danymarie on Jul 07, 2008, 01:16PM
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you need to tell him to calm himself and back off. you have the right to have guy friends and he needs to understand that. he should trust you enough. just talk to him about it.

Answered by tinatodder4 on Jul 07, 2008, 01:18PM
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okay, you're only like 14. this guy just screams trouble. dump him and get the hell out of there. nobody wants a controlling boyfriend. tell him to quit being such a little b*tch or it's over.

Answered by funadvice on Jul 07, 2008, 01:23PM
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do you seriously think that would work tinatodder4? she said that she loves him because he is sweet kind and caring. it doesnt really sound like she wants to break up with him.

Answered by lilykatt on Jul 07, 2008, 01:27PM
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RUN... anyone that tells you who you can and cannot hang out with is not a real friend, no matter what they say. If he is so sweet and caring, why doesn;t he care about you having friends?

Answered by sue90 on Jul 07, 2008, 01:30PM
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Dear peace123,
Well you are here asking this question so you know there is a problem with the way your boyfriend controls you...He has no right to tell you who to see and who you can't, he sneaks out seeing his friends...so it would appear you have also told him he can't see his girl-friends. Sounds like you both are suffering from control problems and you both need to step back and stop dating "anyone" till you both grow up a little.
Sue...good luck