Just friends

Okay to start off....I really REALLY like this one guy, and we flirt w/ eachother like every chance we get...like he always tickles me and tries to take my picture and well he always says he likes me a lot and he would go out with me but he just wants friends with benefits instead of a girlfriend and he is a year younger than me (Im a sophmore....hes a freshman).......well im thinking that something w/ an ex-girlfriend happened that he didnt like or something like that and he doesnt want a girlfriend just incase that happens again or something, I don't know, well my question is, How do I get him to see that having a girlfriend isnt bad!?!?!

This is so silly... ok its so clear here... he only wants friends with benifets... thats stupid... you can clearly see that he just wants someone to have sex with now and again... look maybe im wrong but you should just ahve sex with someone because they want to be "friends with beinfets" thats so pathetic... whats this world going to come to ... people rooting everyone.. before you know everyone would have an std/sti if we all became "friends with benifets"....

well tell him that basicually having a friend with benifits is exactually like having a girlfriend cause your naerly treating eachother the same way