Just barely 15 and pregnant.

It's official. Well my name is Kristin and I turned 15 in May. I had sex with my boyfriend for the first a few months ago, and I took the test last week and went to the doctor today, I'm 2 months into my pregnancy and just want to shoot myself. I made a...

big mistake, I know. We didn't use protection because he was going to pull out before he burst but he didn't do it in time. I'm so ashamed of myself and I'm scared to death! My parents are both very strict and serious about my future. What am I going to tell them? My boyfriend has yet to find out also! What am I going to tell him? He's not going to stay with me I know he's not. We've only been dating for 5 months. Oh no ):

Listen, I know I made a big mistake. You don't have to remind me. I just need advice. I'm not even sure what advice I'm looking for. I'm just scared. I need someone to talk to. I need help. Just, help me. Please don't lecture me. Im falling apart and I'm on the edge of a complete meltdown. There's absolutely no one I can talk to and my doctor said by my next appointment if I don't tell my parents that I'm pregnant he's going to have to tell them himself so they can sign paper work for my insurance and stuff. So that means I have to tell them soon! I'm going abslotely insane.

Yup, that sucks.

wow , if I was you ill speak to him first see what he says if hes ok with it , you should all get together with ya parents see what they say but if your really scared about your parents then try to lose it but if I was you ill keep it but it all depends on the babies father if hes ok keep it but if hes not talk to your parents see what they say , goood luck .

ummm well I don't know what to tell you ut I say that you tlk to him first dont try loosing the bby or aborting it because its not the bbys fault if its anyones fault it wld be urs because you didnt try telling to use a condom and if you cnt tell your mom to her face txt her email her any of those see what she says don't do anything stupid and im guessing he wanted a bby if he didnt pull out in time bt you need to tell him before you tell your mom and cause he is the father to your child and if he isnt gonna be man enough to step up to the plate then he should have used a condom I wld say I wld tlk to him for you but its not my responsibilty its all on you trust me the txt and email work way better than you think

Ouch. That does suck. Just take a few deep breaths. Or a billion. Take as many as you need until you can relax. If you freak out about it it's just going to make everything more difficult and crazy. You need to relax because if you're not calm about this no one will be. Because you're the one carrying the baby, you're the one that has to make the biggest decisions and deal with the most crap.

I understand you are scared to tell your parents but they are going to find out eventually whether it be from your doctor or when your belly starts to grow or 6 months from now. You've just turned 15, you can't do this on your own. It's best to just tell them now. They'll be mad at first but they're going to have to deal. Like I said, they aren't the ones carrying the baby. There's always putting it up for adoption and all. Just because you're pregnant doesn't mean you've ruined your life. Don't let them get you thinking that. Eventually, they are going to have to come to an understanding whether they want you or not. And you are their child, they will be mad but soon enough they will want to help you and take care of you. Don't worry.

As for your boyfriend, he has to understand that this is his baby too. And even though this is both your faults, it's mainly his. He didn't pull out in time and he didn't care that there was no protection involved because HE didn't have getting pregnant to worry about. So if he gets mad at you and leaves, he was never worth it. Having sex so soon in a relationship also gives me the idea that the sex had nothing to do with love. I'd be surprised if he stays with you... the truth sucks.

Best of luck.