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Joy kill?

I was really excited for high school, and getting new clothes and stuff. And now, I feel worthless and ugly and like there’s not point.

I got 2 messages in my Truthbox on Myspace one said, I was really fat, and another said I was scary. That’s definitely not the worst. I don’t even think it was what they said that bothered me, but that people actually thought that about me.

I don’t know what to do. I don’t want people to think I’m scary/fat/ugly. Whatever.

I just feel disgusting and worthless now.

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Answer #1

woahh. ok first thing you need to do is get rid of that truth box. ask yourself “why do I have this?” and the answer is “so that other people can say nasty or inappropriate things anonymously”. After you do that, you have to disregard a lot of things people say because most likely, they’re really insecure about themselves. In fact, they’re so indecent that they’re afraid of saying those things to your face. High school isn’t about who’s the best liked or most popular, even though it seems to be. Work hard on getting a good education and make a few good friends that like who you are, because in 5-10 years life’s going to be totally different. Don’t worry about what people think about you–if you’re as innocent as you seem to be, they should have no reason to dislike you other than senseless hate(jealousy).

Answer #2

What the hell. No, I’m not. You don’t know me, or anything else. I said ONE of the main things that’s bothering me. So stfu and gtfo.

Answer #3

Thank you, you actually did help. :D

Answer #4

You need to chill. I never said that was what it was ALL about.

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