Jelousy?

I know that when you love someone (or just really care for them) that you want for them to have whatever makes them happy.

and if that means them being with another girl, then you just have to suck it up and remember that its best for them.

but...

does it totally destroy the concept when your completely jelous?

Well if your out with it than yeah. Because you are not supporting the person for trying to do something that makes them happy. But I cant see how you could not be the least bit jelous if you care bout the person. I would just let them know that you want them to be happy. but you dont really want to hear details about the other person. Thats just being fair.

awww, sweety, well yeah thats a normal thing to feel that way, cause I've been in the same exact situation, but we gotta realise its just the persons decision on whether or no they love that person, but you know what, lets try to not let our emotions show, I know I sux but we just gotta be strong about it and like you said suck it up, its okay to feel that way, but at the eng of the day if that person really llikes you, you dont even gotta fuss. but just keep it to yourself even though your e burning inside lol and replace it with a smile, dont let your emotions get to you, and I promise you that you will be fine...good luck