Jeff morton is the one i love.....

Jeff is the one I love. I feel so deeply in love with Jeff. At first I didn't know what to do. I just felt like something that really hit me in the stomach. Why would I have Bradley on my mind since I really do love Jeff so much.What else should I do? Am...

I really obessed? I don't want to be obessed for anything. Because I rather end up with Jeff than being with Bradley. I knew Bradley for a short time. I known Jeff for a long time. Jeff knows how I really feel. Because how much he knows me. I really chose the guy that I really want to be with.I really want to be with Jeff. I realize how much I want to be with Jeff a lot. Jeff is a lot of help to me. Would you help me out again youmakemesmile1. You really helped me alot. Hope you help me out again. Jeff is the one. But what if Bradley comes back into my life. I was just thinking that myself. What could I do then? I am just being honest. I don't want to get upset more and then get so confused again. What if Bradley does want me in that kind of way? What should I say to me about that? Should I come up with Jeff's name or not. I don't want Bradley's heart into shatter. What should I do about that then? Anyone out there give me more advice about this if you want. But I just feel the way as of anyone would be if they were caught up between two guys or a guy going up between two women. I am being honest and truthful of this. What do you think that I should do? What should I do more on this?

I think you need a little time to set out all your emotions. If your really in love with Jeff, then there would be no way that there could ever be another man in your life.

ok 1st of all are u with jeff, my fella has that problem a lil bit. i live with him and were together and he claims to love me yet he still wants to be with his ex. and she wants to be with him and i get hurt all the time cuz i feel hed rather want her instead of me. but they cant see each other cuz of her parents not till augugst neway cuz shell be 17 and so hes havin trouble hes laying in the bed right now thinkin or he might have fell asleep i dunno, but im afriad of the otucome cuz it might not be me. and im afraid to be with out him. but neway if ur with jeff and u feel he is the one then stick with him as long as he feels the same way about u. i agree with kailey about if u really love jeff and all that but. my fella has that issue and i dont get how u can love somebody yet want to be with someone else.

Ok, Ive been in this position quite a few times, just with maybe 3 boys. Face it... your going to have to hurt someone, you just have to do it with class. If bradly comes back into your life THATS GREAT (as long as Jeff is out)! If he comes back in, hes just another oppertunitiy for your happiness. Either way, if you have to hurt him, your sadness with be evened out by your happieness! That weight will be lifted off of your shoulders. Look at the comment I left on your other one of how to tell him. It really will work, Ive done it before. Anyways, look at it this way, what can bradly do if you tell him you like Jeff? Hes just going to take it in leave, he wont be able to fight for your love. Just seriously tell him to leave the door open for the future. Its not neccessary to use Jeff's name, but if you do, it doesnt seem like as much of an excuse. Just remember, that you have to tell bradly something, the sooner the better. You keep on saying you love Jeff, so go with that feeling. If your having doubts, do a pro con list for both of them. Rate the pros and cons 1-4 four being the highest in importance, and if your con list comes out higher, theres more things wrong with the situation that there are right. Then you can compare the lists between boys. Let me know if you need more help. Im always here for you!
Jackie