Jealousy

How do I handle husband's jealousy? Yesterday a couple was here, propety agents. Last night my husband blamed me that my boyfriend was here, He ddnt believe me when I told him the truth. He believes what he wants, gets angry and then swears and belittle...

me.

your boyfriend???

She means like that her husband said it was her boyfriend. Lol.

From your previous questions that say you want a divorce I would say that your husband is trying to rationalize in his head why you would want to leave him...blaming you is the logical and easiest thing for him to do. There's no way to get rid of his jealousy the best thing you can do is to ignore him. I was hoping that you had finally gotten away from him (I do understand how hard that would be though). But after everything that he has put you through I do hope that you're still considering leaving him.

Good luck

colethky, yes im buzy with divorce case.. jeez but he is very jealous, I visited our friends ( old workmate of him and his wife) this afternoon, when I returned home he started to blame me of being with an boyfriend. I asked him if I could take him to place where I was, off course the answer was NO. I am tired of defending myself. No matter what I say, its not the answer he want to hear. hahaha, I tried both sides, to tell the truth or to say ok, if you say so.. in 1ste case he will say I lie and in other , that he was always right that I am unfaithfull. its against my belief to have boyfriend whilst married. We are in seperate rooms for 2 years already, I must admit that I have started to make new friends, but I am not interested in any relationship till im over my marriage and all the bagage.