How do i get this guy away from my girlfriend?

So I have a girlfriend shes really beautiful, funny, nice, the works, everything a 13 year old guy could hope for. I've gone out with her once but her friends hated me because of a stupid rumor so they made her break up with me but she still liked me....

Neway, were back together, but theres this guy whos jealous. He really hates me because I've taken the girl he like 3 times in a row, and so hes trying to make me mad by stealing my girlfriend from me. About a week before I asked her out, he asked her out and got rejected. 3 times. But hes the kinda guy thats really flirty, and im sortof shy, so he always steals her from me when were together and cuddling and stuff. Im missing all the parties this year because of soccer, and hes taking those opportunities to dance with her every second he can. Theyve been really good friends for a while and I know if I ask her to stop flirting with him so much she'll b pissed. Also, if I tell him he'll know hes getting to me and just try harder. How do I get this guy away from my girlfriend without asking her to stop or telling him to stop? Remember, im pretty shy and not a dancer at all, so leave out those options. Please help before he gets her!

Sigh, 13.. why god.

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Well you seem to be a really nice guy and you like her a lot. Tbh you dont have anything to worry about. Girls like guys who flirt yes .. but if they are really flirty then every girl knows they wont be a good boyfriend because they would constantly be flirting with other girls so you have nothing to worry about. Girls also like guys who are that bit shy because .. when that guy opens up to them it makes them feel special as they are the only one to get to see the real you .. the person hiding underneath the shyness. sorry I know how lame it sounds buh hey its true. Dont know if it will be any help but yer you have nothing to worry about. If she likes you the way you like her that other guy has no chance .

charlio is so true. You could aslo open up to her. Sit her down and tell her you have something very important to talk to her about. Explain to her how you feel about that, and tell her your jealous. If she gets angry, calm her down, tell her that you're not accusing her of flirting, just tell her that, that guys who flirt with her, makes you upset. If she the kind of girl I think she seems to be, she'll find you very sweet and caring, and shes going to fall head over heals for you. But if things dont work in your favor, I'm very sorry. And just remember that everything happens for a reason, whether its to prepare you for future happenings, or give you experience on life.