Should I blow off my boyfriend who is going to jail?

my new boyfriend is going to jail, and we dont know for how long. he doesnt want me to wait for him. but I really want to be with him. I've known him since I was 12. and I've like him since I was 14. we've only been dating for 2weeks. which I know isnt...

anythign serious, but I really care for him and I want to be there for him. all my friends say blow it off its not worth it. but I really dont know. should I wait for him?

He's not worth it. Your only going to get a bad reputation and if he's going to jail, hes not worth your love. He won't be able to support you or be there for YOU. Your the one with the vagina, not him. Men arn't as moody as us and he can't make you feel good if he's not there.

"creation" you would be a HORRIBLE counselor. that is not it at all. just because he is going to jail does NOT mean that hes not worth her love. he doesnt have to support her...she should be able to support herself. If you love him, and you want to wait for him. then wait for him, but DONT say youre going to wait and then CHEAT on him...because thats bad, but if you want to wait...then by all means, wait...my friend is about to get out of jail...and there are good people in jail...the law DOES make mistakes whether people want to believe it or not and I think if you love him enough and you want to wait for him...then wait for him. at least he's not being unfaithful in jail... :-)

helll ya