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I've known this guys for about 3 years, we met in junior high and

Asked by tayl0rl0ve3 23 days ago, 3 answers.

we've hit it off right away. he is the cute, funny, smart, athetic guy. he is PERFECT. so we met in junior high, and we have been great friends of the beginning of the year. very close, always talkin to one another, never got tired of eachother. so that...

summer he left to go visit family in mexico and when he came back for the new school year, everything was akward. it was like this wall was built up and it was almost like the other person never exsisted. however we would always steal shy glances at eachother.(no conversation at all!) so we go on to high school and the first time I talk to him again was after school. I was walking home (were neighbors btw) from school and he called my name and we had this 5 min conversation, you know catching up, he asked about where I lived. things like that. after that... nothing. thats right nothing. we still stare at eachother and the more and more I see him the more stressed I get because I dont know if he feels the same way, or if he really cant stand my guts. I see him everyday, and its like we both know when we see eachother, so he would stall with some of his friends and wait for me to pass. I am VERY confused. please help!!

lens flare Answered by captainassassin on Nov 04, 2009, 10:33AM
6192 answers

***he is PERFECT***

No he isn't... he's human...

***I am VERY confused. please help!!***

...then TALK TO HIM about it...

Answered by tayl0rl0ve3 on Nov 04, 2009, 06:39PM

its not that easy.
im just really shy to the point were I know I don't have the guts to talk to him

should I just give up then

lens flare Answered by captainassassin on Nov 05, 2009, 08:46AM
6192 answers

If you can't even talk to him about such things... you ARE NOT great friends. And if you refuse to address the issue, then yes... give up.

...H...O...W...E...V...E...R...

Before you do, here's another question, what will you do when the NEXT guy comes around you like? Will you be too scared to talk to HIM too? Will you give up THEN too? Whatabout the next one? And the next one?

Rejection is a part of life. It happens to everyone. In this case, your lack of initiative is the same thing as rejection, only slower and more painful. If you don't take chances at love, then you're practically accepting a life of solitude...

...is that what you want?

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