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I would tell the person you are with now. I know that you arent having a physical relationship with your ex, he lives out of state. but if you are talking to him and confiding in him then you are having an emotional affair, which can be just as traumatizing as a sexual one. if you feel guilty then that is your gut telling you that something is wrong and you need to do something about it. your boyfriend now will probably tell you to stop talking to your ex, and if your ex really loves you as a person and as a friend, he will understand why. and think about how you would feel if your boyfriend now had an ex girlfriend with whom he was still emotionally connected to. I know as a woman I would be PISSED. I was in a situation like this and I actually physically cheated on my boyfriend (we were taking a break but it was still wrong) and my boyfriend told me to stop talking to him. I had to otherwise I wouldnt be a woman of my word, nor could I fully devote my love and attention to him.
you cannot fully commit to your boyfriend now if you have space in your heart for your ex. its not fair. it makes your boyfriend feel neglected, sub-standard and basically there for when you want him to be there. you need to call your ex and tell him that the two of you are over. not that you're taking a break or some space or having an open relationship but that you are over. I wouldnt even talk to your ex anymore. maybe its me and im just a weak person, but I have never been able to sustain just friendly relationships with guys that I was sexually attracted to. im still young so I have a lot to learn in life I guess. but platonic relationships DO NOT WORK if both parties are sexually attracted to one another, and im assuming you are sexually attracted to your ex seeing as how you went out with him. thats like pouring milk and juice together and trying to keep them separate. weird analogy I know but whatever.
and that 'nothing is going to happen soon between me and my ex' I dont even know what that is cause it should say never.
you need to be really honest with yourself right now and figure out what it is that you want. if you arent over your ex then get out of that relationship you are in now fast because you are subconsciously using it as a facsimile of the relationship you left behind with your ex.






Is it possible to love more than one person?
It's possible to love more tha one person right? The boy I'm with right now, loves me and I love him 2. My ex- lives out of state. We didn't intentionally break up. So we stil have feelings for eachother. however I feel like I'm cheating on the one I'm with right now by even talking to my ex. I feel guilty eventhough nothing is going to happen anytime soon between me and my ex. What to do?