Does not having a boyfriend mean i'm ugly?

it makes me upset that I dont have a boyfriend it makes me feel like im the ugliest person sigh!!

Hunny, Your gorgeous(:

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HELP AT ALL ?

I have the same problem your not the only one but I feel like I am ugly too because I havent had a boyfriend in two years...im 18 without my first kiss, n being a virgin...It sucks...there ain any good guys at my school anymore...I dont know what to do anymore

is there anyone you like?

You're only 16- yeah sure, people around you might be dating, but it's not essential that you do too. Maybe it's just me, but when I was 16, seeing all my friends dating made me want to do it less, because I was tired of doing what they were doing, just as an attempt to fit in. But anyway...

If you want a boyfriend as an attempt to feel better about yourself, this could potentially cause problems. I mean, wouldn't he feel used if this was all you wanted him for? I've felt bad about how I've looked in the past- I remember I developed a lot later than other girls, and I had some pretty bad acne. But having said that, the few friends I had were all people who liked and accepted me for who I was- that short, bubbly girl, with a good sense of humour. I still have a few parts of my body I'm not 100% thrilled with, but I take the good with the bad, and I accept it. If you focus on the good parts (not just looks, but personality) it takes away from the bad. Confidence is a big thing- no guy wants to hear about how ugly you think you are, or how you hate your feet, etc... they hear these, and they walk away. Ignore those bits, and be the bright happy person you are with your friends. As my guy mates have told me I wouldn't want to date a girl who I couldn't see myself being friends with.

Also, find things that interest you, and focus on them- if you like drama, dance, soccer, speed-knitting, military training- whatever it is, get involved! Look into groups and clubs for people with these interests, and meet people with the same interests as you. That way, if you meet someone you fancy at one of these clubs, you have some common ground that you can build a friendship on.

So, to put it shortly, no, not having a boyfriend doesn't make you ugly. It might just mean you need to tweak your attitude a bit. Always remember, the love of others means nothing if you can't learn to love yourself.

Sweetheart don't think like that okay??? im sure you will find love soon. Don't worry about all that now.

STOP ASKING THE SAME FRIGGIN' QUESTIONS!
holy crap its the most annying thing on the planet I swear!

someone's got something shoved up their a*SS. calm down haileybre, it's very pathetic but people like to make themselves feel better by getting people to tell them they are not ugly. I feel sorry for the insecure people out there

sup

No,I am a boy myself boys look for girls who are smart and somewhat attractive and also girls who will stay with them through whatever.If you are older than 14 and nobodys coming to you go to them!Or you can wait for adulthood and then go find someone.

I use to think that but once you stop thinking that you need to boyfriend to feel good about urself, and get on with life and have fun, and be urself...u will find someone...not straightaway... but you will.

NOT HAVING boyfriend DOES NOT MEAN your UGLY. just have FUN and BE URSELF...