It hurts during sex

I havent had sex for 14 months and even before that I barly felt anything in...my last time my ex pushed in really hard and it hurt when he hit my cervix[he was 5 inches]...now my current boyfriend is about 6-7 inches and very very thick...since its been...

14 months it was hard getting in and once it did it only ent 3/4 in but doqqy style hurt really really bad..n me on top hurt if I moved the wrong way...I felt inside and theirs a bumb on top wall of my vagina and its about 4 inches far...I wanna pleasure him and also b pleasured but it really hurts for him to go in deep...any advice on how to make it enjoyable for me?? by the way I don't cum but I am lubricated enough

in tantra which is hindu wrote the book the karma sutra the book of sex, you are classed as having a small yoni in english that means you have a shallow vagina your small down there

if its painful for him to go deep then you need to find sex positions that allow you to gadge the depth of his penatration doggy style will not suit you (it doesnt me for the same reason)
try the spoons postion where your both lying down in the same direction and he enters you from behind.
or you on top and go slowly and only allow him to enter you as much as is comfortable to you. (seriously give it another try)

you cant allow yourself to become afraid of intercourse otherwise you will tighten with the stress and it will be difficult for him to enter you at all.

most women dont cum during sexual intercourse but not impossible get him to stimulate your clitoritis to orgasm either with his fingers or oraly you can also use a vibrator to stimulate yourself.

you can do him on top I.e missionary so long as he goes slow but there is a chance he will get over excited and go to deep.

I would sujest getting a copy of the karma sutra or the joy of sex look into sex and how it can be one of the best experiences in your life..

look online for different sex positions that allow you control of the situation get a book on tantric sex the karma sutra
dont worry about the bump, its your cervix if you feel it, its domed and smooth with a little indent in the middle

here are some links
http://www.amazon.com/Karma-Sutra-Sex-Love-Relationship/dp/1601630093/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8s=booksqid=1251062339sr=8-2

and http://www.amazon.com/Joy-Sex-Timeless-Lovemaking-Ultimate/dp/0307452034/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8s=booksqid=1251062408sr=1-1
good luck and have fun

I agree with the previous answer.
My hubby is 8.5 inches long and 4 inches around!!!
It Still hurts!!!
however, I have found that the product (Excite) numbs your vagina just enough for him to get in and it heightens your pleasure and makes you more likely to get yours.
before using Excite it was REALLY hard for me to get mine... now I get mine at least 5 times in an hour!!!
Its awesome!!!