It's been a month and I still can't stop thinking of him

My boyfriend broke up with me a month ago...And I still can't get over him...Everything I do/think/watch/listen to reminds me of him...I even sleep with the shirt that I wore the last when I was with him because it reminds me of him and some how I can still smell the scent of him...Around the 4th of July I thought I saw him like 4 different times but I knew it wasn't him because he lives an hour away and he wasn't in my town...I just want him back so bad...I dont know what to do...How to make him happy...Please help

This sucks- big time!! First off, are you still calling him? If so, STOP!! There is no way in hell he is going to miss you if you are calling, sobbing to him on the phone. Make yourself scarce. What helped me is being around friends. Exercise, buy a new outfit, do something that will make yourself feel better. If he realizes he was wrong for breaking up, he will call. I dated a guy for about 5 months and he broke up with me over e-mail! I didnt think I was ever going to get over him, but I did! Two years later, I laugh about it!! There are so many guys out there, abd some of us have to kiss a lot of frogs before we find our prince. Hope it all works out for u!!

Hunny,
I know how you feel you probally still talk to his mom (if you were ever close with her). The truth is if he broke up with you he doesnt want to be with you. You are a great person and dont waste your time on someone who is going to make you cry like this. The worth crying over wont make you cry! remember that. And even if you still want him back after this the only way to make that happen is to let him miss you. Dont go off trying to make him jealous, that will just p*ss him off. Just Do what a breakup is like a hard clean break no phone calls talking to his mom or inviting yourself to family get togethers.MAKE HIM MISS YOU! Hope to have helped.

Hunny,
I know how you feel you probally still talk to his mom (if you were ever close with her). The truth is if he broke up with you he doesnt want to be with you. You are a great person and dont waste your time on someone who is going to make you cry like this. The worth crying over wont make you cry! remember that. And even if you still want him back after this the only way to make that happen is to let him miss you. Dont go off trying to make him jealous, that will just p*ss him off. Just Do what a breakup is like a hard clean break no phone calls talking to his mom or inviting yourself to family get togethers.MAKE HIM MISS YOU! Hope to have helped.