Is this the end of us??

For a while things haven't been that great between me and my boyfriend of three years ... a while being I don't know, like a month or so?

So anyway I told him we needed to talk about it because it was really hurting me that he never called anymore or...

told me he loved me or do the things that he used to do .. and so in a nut shell, he told me that he loves me but he's not in love with me anymore. It broke my heart and I could tell he was upset too. I asked him how long he has felt this way and he said maybe a month. he said that he was just waiting to see if this feeling would go away or something like that. He says he's confused and feels like an asshole. There's so much more I could write, but I don't want this to be too long.
I don't know. This is so hard, we've been through so much together.
What should I do?? What's going to happen now?? Is it possible for him to fall back in love with me?? Is there any hope at all?
I'm so scared =(
I really don't want to lose my best friend..

Try to remember that while falling in love makes you feel special, warm and tingly those feelings fade, somewhat. After you are comfortable with someone that you're in love with you don't get the excitement that you once did. Your love turns more comfortable. I think that's why a lot of men think that they're not in love anymore, it doesn't necessarily feel the same way. Think of the honeymoon phase, you have it for a short while and then it ends and reality sets in.