Do we have something like an infection?

ok so I've been 2gether wit my boyfriend for over 2yrs. when we 1st started having s*x we used condoms then for about 1 or 2 months we werent then we did again. well then I started to get like thick white discharge something I didnt really get before. we did it again w/out condoms like 1 or twice. I still kept having it. now im starting to wonder if I have like an infection or something but it doesnt burn or itch. he didnt before but now my b-f has like a redish mark down there. & he's not circumsized. is this normal? could we both have something? if so could it b bec. of me or bec. he's not cir-sized?Any Advice?

Dear ljfs,
You both need to see a doctor...A thin clear or slightly white discharge can be normal for a woman but thick white and with your boyfriend have some red this could be a sign of something else. A simple test by your doctor can determine if it's a problem or not.
Sue...good luck