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Is this normal?

guess who Asked by babygrrl 5 months ago, 4 answers.

Okay, well my boyfriend loves to try please me but when he fingers me it hurts like I feel bad cause I mean I pretty much fake how good it feels everytime, but I mean he has so much fun doing it I don't wanna make him stop. then when he eats me...

out it doesn't feel amazing either. it's just kinda whatever. Is it normal? Or is there anything I can do to make it hurt less feel a whole lot better ?

Clearing the Gene Pool Answered by bimjob (Online now) on Jun 24, 2009, 08:46PM
3291 answers

Daniel and Melissa are right.

Guys are CLUELESS on how to please a woman.
PLUS' if a guy happens upon (or hears about) something that worked on one girl, he thinks that will work on every other woman he runs into.
Most guys love for you to give them directions on how to please you, just don't do it so that he feels inadequate. In the heat of passion, you can say something like, Dear, that feels great, but it would feel even better if you would ... (fill in the blank).

With a guy all it takes is to fondle him a bit, show a bit of boob, and he is ready to go.
A woman - not even close.
For instance, mention foreplay to a young guy, and at best he thinks, tweak the nipple and kiss for three minutes (instead of one) and it's GAME ON.
WRONG!
Foreplay starts long before the clothes come off. Dinner, talking, LISTENING. Paying attention and letting the lady know that she is worth spending time with ... that she is #1.
If you can somehow get Romeo to understand this, you may well find yourself much more likely to have a pleasant time.

I don’t know your age, but also know that if you are in your teens, your body may not be quite ready to have orgasms (you didn’t say if you did or not.)
Also, generally it is not a good idea to fake orgasms. First, if he finds out he may resent it. And second, YOU will end up resenting him because he can’t give you an orgasm.

I wish you
Good Luck!!

And when the time comes, remember to practice safe sex!!!

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Answered by melissa_x3 on Jun 24, 2009, 07:41PM
37 answers

you should tell him it hurts and to try somethng different or tell him what to do to please you, you shouldnt keep faking it

blah. Answered by daniellerashelle on Jun 24, 2009, 07:56PM
30 answers

faking it is just going to make you unhappy,
you need to tell him how you feel,
I think you should experiment a little.
so you can find things he can do to you,
that feels amazing.

be controlling, and tell him what feels good, and what doesnt, how fast how hard, everything you need to be open. (Y)

Answered by darkhell on Jun 25, 2009, 02:15AM
136 answers

Sex always need coaching, everyone likes different things, even for a guy it may feel good but as the saying goes different strokes for different folks

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