Is this gay?

I've never been attracted to men...never questioned my sexuality...lovvee women...but I've been having weird dreams about men.. it started with just dreaming about friends and then me and guy friends kissing and more...now I am having fullout sex with strange but 'respectable' looking men in my dreams. This has been occuring almost nightly...I have a woman and I am crazy about..in reality I never have a homosexual thought but when I wake up from those dreams ...well...I think I enjoy them...What do they mean...how can I stop themm...(has been going on for about 4months now)

Thank you all for your time and advice!

the could b just dreams if you picture being in a serious with I gay guy then yur gay if not your just curious of the gay life style

I think you had some shock-like experience in your very early age and that comes up in your dreams. If you were 100% gay you would make efforts to fulfill your orientation. That is very strong !! But, yes, that supposed experience could implant some weak gay motivations in your soul. You can solve this problem very easily if you tell all this dreams to your g/f in details. Women have very good sens to analyse their men's soul. Anyways, 100% straight men are rare, all of us are somewhere in a certain scale in this respect.

It could be a chain reaction from the first dream like that. After it you got worried and it got stuck on your mind, so you had another dream, which got you fixed on the idea and the following dreams were only a result of you being too obsessed about it. Or maybe you're subconsciously curious and dreams are the only outlet for your curiosity. In any case, that does not have to mean you're gay in waking life. Many people have dreams or even fantasies about people of the same sex, yet they have normal and happy heterosexual lives.

I'm not sure if your dreams or gay or not. I'm gay and sometimes I have dreams about men. It's nothing to worry about. I think that if you really are crazy about this girl then you should keep seeing her but if you break up there is nothing wrong with trying something new. It mite be really hard to come out of the closet if you are gay but that would be the only thing in your way after you come out you have nothing holding you back and you can just be yourself. Talk to a really close friend about this sort of thing that's what friends are for. I think that you should try it but if your scared I can totally understand if you have any questions or problems e-mail me at Fun mail me I'm always willing to talk so be free to E-mail me.

well I went to this dream site and it says if your not homosexual and your homosexual dreams it just means
Homosexual
To dream that you are homosexual (but you are not in your waking life), represents a union with aspects of yourself. It is symbolic of self-love, self-acceptance, and compassion.? If, in your dream, you are not comfortable with homosexuality, then it suggests some fears/anxieties about your masculinity (if you are male) and femininity (if you are female).?You may be experiencing some insecurity in your relations with the opposite sex.?

On a side note, it is common for expectant fathers to have dreams of homosexual encounters.

I dunno if it helps. but if you are curious about men I'm sure it would have presented itself to you in your time awake. then you maybe curious and it's not awful really I'm a women in a commited relationship with a man. I love him. I am also attracted to women, but I don't ct on that attraction not because I think it wrong to be homosexual( because its NOT!) I love my boyfriend, both emotionally and physically.) and if you love your girlfriend both physically and emotionally then gender doesn't matter!! it's the feelings that matter! so don't worry about the dreams. plus the more you stress over it the more of a problem it becomes! so don't worry! hope I helped you sum...

ehmagawds me 2... but I would never kiss a girl!

Its just Boys 4 me! hee hee hee!

well then your bi! no no no no maybe its just a dream

I know a lot about dreams and have done projects on them for school, so here's my opinion. You are bi-curious. Dreams are trying to give your concious mind a message that only your subconcious mind truely understands. So if you know that you really love your girlfriend, your not gay, but has a great possibility of being bi.