Is this cheating??

I think I worded my question yesterday wrong!! I'm not talking to anyone on the phone. Is it cheating when your mate thinks your up to something so they call their ex to talk to them. I hope that sounds better. My boyfriend said that he thought I was 'creaping' and that was the only time he ever called the girl. But this was months ago and its just coming to the light. If he thought I was up to something doesnt that mean that he didn't just call her to say hi, he called to get even with me right?? Basically he messed up a good thing.because I haven't cheated the whole time.a friend said im jumping to conclusions, but I just don't play anyone's fool. Advice pleaze!!!

No your not becuase a good man WOULD NEVER do anything to get back he would of talked to you,,,

a relationship needs trust and if he went that far as to calling his ex and it obviously wasnt to say hi but start stuff not saying sexual or anythign but still

if your really love some you will break up with them before you hurt them even if you ONLY THINK they are hurting youby cheating

its not cheating if he JUST calls his ex but it is a stab in the heart true guy wont do things like that what if he THINKS your sleeping around and usese the excuse 'oh I thought you were so I did too'

NO IT IS NOT CHEATING .

First of all, a good man wouldn't want to get even. He would ask you first.
Secondly, most of the time when someone is accusing you of doing something, they're guilty themselves.
My adivce, ditch him. If he is going to be so immature that he has to get even with you over hear say, then a relationship with him is pointless, especially if he waits for a long period of time to tell you about his actions.