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Is this being lesbian?

me and dallas Asked by haleylovesjb about 1 year ago, 16 answers.

Okay..I like girls a lot! and lately SOOO MUCH MORE THAN GUYS! I still think guys are somewhat attractive like cute..but I dont want to date them. The Last 3 relatioships I had with guys was horrible because all I wanted was a girl..So is that being...

lesbian?

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kitty Answered by ty on May 26, 2008, 06:07PM
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It sounds like you like girls. The rest is complicated. It takes most people a while to figure it out, and even then sexuality is fluid... I wouldnt go trying to put on a label, atleast not until you've dated a girl and seen what that's like...

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My turn to protect you, Snake. Answered by pakiprince31 on May 26, 2008, 02:53PM
86 answers

You may be bisexual?

fight for what you believe in! Answered by blah358 on May 26, 2008, 03:20PM
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well like the guy said above...there is a strong possibility that you are bisexual

35 weeks pregnant (Yes, I have a sports-bra on) Answered by stephanief987 on May 26, 2008, 03:22PM
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You may be - you may not be.
As you get older and start to experiment more, you will learn more about your sexuality and who you are. Don't assume anything right now though.

Me Cheesing Answered by theinjun on May 26, 2008, 03:50PM
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steph is right. You are learning and developing as the years pass and you should indulge yourself in relationships and actually see what you like. I know some lesbians that find men very attractive but want nothing to do with them but they are also like 27 and know what they want and have been married before and things so just figure out what you really want and go for it. I would not make assumptions or define yourself just yet.

me Answered by deena on May 26, 2008, 03:55PM
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posssibly thats what it sounds like ... what do you think?

me Answered by nessa19 on May 26, 2008, 06:34PM
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well your probably still finding out what your true sexuality is
dont be calling your self lesbian or bisexual till you noe which side you go for more
right now you may go for both then you might only go for just girls or just guys

so till you find out what you really want I suggest you not label your self like ty said ...your still growing and going through so hormonal changes wait till your a lil older

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cheese! Answered by nerd on May 26, 2008, 08:12PM
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So my daughter is OBSESSED with pulling the labels off of my bottled waters. I buy them by the 24 pack, whichever is on sale. It doesn't matter if its Ozarka, or Desani, or Aquafina. When I start to think about this as I am sweeping up the bits of paper from the kitchen floor, the grand metaphore solidifies. If the water quenches your thirst, does it matter what the brand is?

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me and my boyfreind :] Answered by jazlovestoskate (Online now) on May 27, 2008, 04:15AM
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I dont think so
if you were (a true) lesbian youd have no sexual feelings at all towards guys
only girls
as most other people say your probably bisexual
or just a little confused
if you only have bad expiriences with guys, your going to see them all like that
and might not get the chance to find the right guy
you might also think that girls would understand you better...
the only person who really knows how you feel is you
but I dont think you should lable yoursel a lesbian just yet!

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on May 27, 2008, 04:52AM
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You sound bisexual or bi-curious.

mi Answered by ciani_babi on May 27, 2008, 06:00PM
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u are a bisexual. its nothin 2 be worried about. it natural

me and dallas Answered by haleylovesjb on May 27, 2008, 06:45PM
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you guys I dont like guys like that...they can becute but I DONT WANT TO DATE THEM! I have already been bisexual for a while and I want to move past it. I know lesbians that think guys are cute they just dont want to date them and my friends want me to just admit that im a lesbian.

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on May 30, 2008, 08:57PM
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Maybe you are a lesbian? You should try dating a girl and see if you enjoy girls more.

lets just say girls like to have FUN Answered by begforme on Jun 01, 2008, 09:05PM
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you bi. embrace it. I had the same thing happen to me. its like when you fisrt start going out with girls its something new and its more intreasting then boys. eventually you wont be as obbses with girls. but you will see which you like better. I hope my advice helped and if you have any other questions feel free to ask.

poopers Answered by moistpanda on Aug 10, 2008, 10:17AM
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Well I am gay. And I still think guys are cute.
No one knows you better than your self. so you tell us.

Answered by lets_go_fishing on Oct 04, 2008, 12:22PM

Im gay too, and although I can distinguish between attractive looking boys and ugly boys, I personally dont see the attraction that men hold for women sexually. My advice to you is to give yourself time, dont label yourself and dont yield to the pressure your friends put on you. Only you can know if your gay, and sleeping with a woman pretty much confirmed that for me. Im not saying you should do that too, everyone is different, but be aware of the connotations that come with a label. a lot of lesbians I know steer away from bisexuals, believing them to be attention seekers, unsure, unreliable, or promiscuous. I wouldnt call yourself gay or bi until your absolutely sure, but goodluck, I hope you find someone that makes you happy, whatever gender. xxx happy

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