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Is this a sin

Asked by thatgirl 11 months ago, 16 answers.

is it unholy for two unmarried people to have a relationship
and be able to like kiss but not have sex would god or jesus appove of this
is it a sin I have heard that its not asin as long as you dont have lust over one another

Answered by faithfulgirl27 on Dec 24, 2008, 04:29PM
67 answers

I think when asking these kind of questions you should ask christians to avoid getting responses from those who dont belive that dont have any morals or sense of what is right or what is wrong. it is not unholy to kiss,but dont put yourself in risky situations that would tempt you to sin.

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Answered by tango3477 on Dec 24, 2008, 11:18AM
155 answers

jeese...there is no god so quit feeling guilty about sins that dont exist.

being sexual is natural and considered healthy. But use protection, condom a minimum so you dont get std's.

I have lived with my boyfriend for 2 years, we make love, feel lust, and are happier than ever. we arent married yet. its not possible to kiss and not feel lust...what a dead relationship if you want that!

I used to be a christian, but after a lot of education have decided that its not possible for god to exist.

Answered by brittanybold on Dec 24, 2008, 11:45AM
65 answers

who cares!
it never said in the bible
that people have to be married
to have sex but the only things I follow is the ten comandments
all the sins you can repent I thought jesus died for our sins anyways
why are we trying so hard to be perfect!

Answered by mesinger on Dec 24, 2008, 12:50PM
878 answers

I don't think the gods care. It is the right way for most to marry and then have sex but if you decide earlier then It's you're decision. No one's stopping you.

Answered by an_emo_girls_bestfriend on Dec 24, 2008, 12:59PM
49 answers

theres no such thing as sin

Answered by captainassassin on Dec 24, 2008, 01:34PM
6193 answers

***is it unholy for two unmarried people to have a relationship and be able to like kiss but not have sex would god or jesus appove of this is it a sin I have heard that its not asin as long as you dont have lust over one another ***

If you are Christian, then you might've been TOLD that its a sin, but its not. Neither is having pre-marital sex. And you can't have sex without lust. You NEED that in order to become sexually aroused. Well, depending on your definition of 'lust'

Answered by jester_x on Dec 24, 2008, 03:50PM
883 answers

Humans are sexual creators. Christianity for some reason wants us to hold back your own nature. Don't feel guilty. There is no great spirit in the sky judging your every move.

Having said that. Sex should only be had by thoses that are truly ready for physical and emotional reasons.

Answered by silverwings on Dec 24, 2008, 06:23PM
1515 answers

I am very glad that you care enough to ask... Praise God !!!

Answered by umbe on Dec 25, 2008, 12:23PM
89 answers

to tell the truth I do not know sad
but you can still pray to god and ask him to guide you as to wether it is wright or wrong??
GOD BLESS happy

Answered by captainassassin on Dec 26, 2008, 12:47AM
6193 answers

***I think when asking these kind of questions you should ask christians to avoid getting responses from those who dont belive that dont have any morals or sense of what is right or what is wrong.***

Oh... so only Christians have morals? Hilarious. Clearly you became Christian to make yourself feel superior to others... classic religion abuse.

Answered by princess777 on Dec 26, 2008, 05:27AM
41 answers

To be in a relationship NO.. to have sex before marriage YES! Vhristianity does not hold us back.. God protects us... I used to be atheist and agnostic and now I could never go back... why would I want to... If your relationship is as you describe then power to you... you stronger than most people... in my personal view looking at it from when I was atheist.. its simple.. my husband one day deserves everything.. I know im going to love him sooo much that im going to want to be as close to perfect as I can for him and to be honest I cant see how he cant get hurt knowing I've slept with other guys... and I love him enough now already to try be as innocent as I can for him... and to try become the person he deserves

Answered by thex13thxchild on Dec 26, 2008, 10:35AM
1395 answers

that dont have any morals or sense of what is right or what is wrong.
then why are you answering?

according to the bible I doubt it.
Jesus would kiss Mary Magdalen(least on the cheek) all the time.
As long as there's no lust or sexual feelings involved it's not frowned down upon.

Answered by woohooo on Dec 26, 2008, 11:51AM
45 answers

In aincient times when language was even developed and the only words that your Ape ancestors could say was , UG they didn't have any fancy wedding ceremonies or vows they just had sex and we are proof I really don't think that if there is a God he would be too bothered about a bunch of vows that almost half of people every year break anyway

Answered by lilmissme24 on Dec 26, 2008, 12:17PM

Im Catholic and the answer to your question is NO. A kiss is just a kiss!

Answered by toadaly on Dec 26, 2008, 11:19PM
4241 answers

It is unnatural to abstain from sex and everything that precedes it. Do you really believe there is a god out there who has created you to be naturally opposed to his will?