Is there something wrong with me?

I'm a 17 yeard old girl. I've had boyfriends in the past but never felt the need to go 'far' , which causes them to dump me. Then I realise that I'm not bothered weather I have a boyfriend or not, and that I've never been in love. I care deeply for all...

my friends.
This past year, I've turned down every lad that asked me out, but when I look around me, I see girls desperate to get boyfriends, losing their virginity and falling in love. It's not like I'm a late bloomer either, I developed earlier than most girls I know (periods at age 10) but now I feel like I'm just that little bit behind them all, even all my friends.

Is there something wrong with me? Am I frigid? Or emotionally stunted?

I am seventeen too and I know exactly how you are feeling and you are perfectly fine..i have had a very rough background and i chose not to be involved with men for a long time because of it I was scared to trust and of commitment five months ago though i met a really great guy who helped me heal in alot of ways..you should never give your self to some one unless you are ready and a guy should never presure you or force you to..if you don't want to go all the way then don't don't just give it up because he ask for it..it is your body..and your choice who you share it with..I have only ever loved one person and trust me it has been more then worth waitting for we are not going to do anything untill we are married in a year or so you know a guy loves you when he'll wait and honor your wishes..i told him i was not ready and he didn't leave he respected it and then I told him i wanted to be married first and he respects that by the way we live together..and are planning on getting married next forth of july. it is worth waitting for and love is very special make sure you know that the guy loves you for who you are and not what you can give him. David has seem me at my worst and my best and he loves me all the same enough to wait too. When you meet some one like that then you know you have found love.

well I'm 13 so i may not know too much about all that but i do know that you should wait for someone you really love first don't just go 'far' like you said with just anyone
and also don't look at what other kids are doing cause most of the times they are just hormone driven little s*x beasts :p
so i don't think anything is wrong with you

There is nothing wrong with you. People move at different paces. Never compare yourself to people around you. I have known many people who were still virgins when they were in their 20's, and nothing was wrong with them. I even know a doctor who has never so much as kissed another person. They all just chose not to go to that step for a variety of reasons.

That's great that you're a strong enough to be able to say no when you aren't ready and to stand by that.

i dont see nething wrong wit u ur just waiting for the right one to come and when he or she comes around then u will kno wat u wanan do there is nothin wrong wit u ur just takein life the easier wa y