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Is there a reason why I don't have a boyfriend??

Thunder Robot Asked by funadvice 2 months ago, 4 answers.

There's something really bugging me. For the past month or two my friends have been hanging out with their bs more than me. And that's ok, I can see why. But home come I'm the one that doesn't have a boyfriend? I'm not the prettiest girl in school, but neither are my friends. People have asked me out and I have to reject. I have standards, since I'm 85lbs I can't have a fat boyfriend, it wouldn't work. When I look around everyone is kissing on their bfs. Does anyone get why I'm the girl that acctually wants a boyfriend and I don't have one?
((I just need a little advice, that's it. And no, I don't cry about it))

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Yes... I'm wearing a shirt. Answered by xxlovehurtsbabexx on May 25, 2008, 05:51PM
| 587 answers.

Ummm... dude stop basing boyfriends on looks!
It's PERSONALLITY and religion and pollatics and such that you need to agree on.
I'm in the most twisted mix right now. My ex boyfriend and I might start dating again. I'm NEVER one for second relationships BUT.. I love him so much AND it wasn't him who wanted to break up with me. His mom made him do it.

BUT anyways. Yeah you need to get over it. The less you worry the more likly you are to get a boyfriend. Anyways you need to go for personallity.
My ex boyfriend and I almost weigh the same!
I don't care!
I would love him even if he was ugly, fat, or just plan unattractive to me. But! He has the most perfect personallity and treats me like an girlfriend not an toy!

so just stop saying you can't date a 'fat' boy. I know tons of couples of different size. WHY would it matter if you loved eachother?

Thunder Robot Answered by funadvice on May 25, 2008, 07:28PM

okie, well here's something for all you to understand my complex, yet messed up mind.
Me= So small and thin that if you pinched me, I'm all skin blood and bone.
The guy that asked me out= 200 pounds more than me
looks aren't everything, yet people think the opposite. Hmm, that's why I have few friends, because I'm not pretty enough for my old friends. Lol.
And the guy the was 'fat', he only wanted to go out w/ me so he wasn't the only single guy.
Sorry, but it someone 'likes' me, they should have a good reason.
and if he was too shy to say why, then does he really like me? If you love someone you should be able to tell them so.
And maybe I'm so amazed about Ryuzaki, I compare every guy to him and this anime characer seems so much better. I know, no one really cares. But I am plainly addicted to him. ((Matches the pic of my Ryuzaki))
I hear sh*t like people talking about their perfect guy and what he'd be like.
If a guy is perfect for you, then he'll love you for who you are, and you won't have to change for him. I've actually been depressed lately, I asked this really hot and funny and cute guy out and he turned me down because I'm too happy for him.
But if I wasn't so happy, what would prevent myself from crying, lol.
Great, making myself cry again.
The thing is, I want to have sex, like so much. so I might want someone who will f*ck me, right? >< No one understands. No one ever will.
okie.. >< I'll just move on, I just sound so pathetic all the time. I will become a great single detective, or kill myself!! XD Yay...
Off to eat some cheesecake.
((because I run my mouth like this people hate me))

Hate you always,
Ama

P.S.
The world hates me and I like it!!

Me in thought... Answered by erasmus27 on May 26, 2008, 04:04AM
| 234 answers.

you dont have a boyfriend because the right guy hasn't come along yet. that is good that you have standards. it means the you have actual self-esteem which is a good thing to have. just don't rush into a relationship because you feel left out or you might end up with a guy who only cares about one thing. sex. and then thats when mistakes happen and you will fell like you were used because you were.

don't be so picky but don't drop all your standards on who or who not to date. if your in highschool (which we'll just hope thats how old you are) then high school relationships are just really horomones raging and guys trying to have se and feel more like a man.

I'm not saying don't date but don't rush yourself into a relationship with someone because you felt left out or alone. without knowing more about you I really can't tell you anything else to try to help you out. just don't listen to moronic advice.

Thunder Robot Answered by funadvice on May 27, 2008, 03:23AM

I can't rush myself into a relationship IF NO ONE LIKES ME.

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