Is she ready?

Me and my girlfriend are both almost 16 and have been going out for almost a year. We have never done anything more than kiss until lately. She has been letting me do things like touch her breasts, feel her up and press against her when I'm hard and...

she giggles a lot like she enjoys it when I do. Is this a sign that she wants to have sex as much as I do? I don't want to just come out and ask her if she's ready because I'm afraid to lose her if she just thinks I'm wanting sex.

well it sounds to me like your doing just fine...just go by what you feel...if she acts like she likes it then do it agian...if she starts pullin away or says somethin then don't do it its that simple...but do make sure she knows that you do like he either way...I was 15 when I lost mine and don't regret it at all

I waited until I was 18 to lose my virginity and I kind of regret it. But that's just me. Sex WILL change the way things are. It will. It willbe a very emotional thing for her and unless you can handle that don't. You might not understand how much of an impact it really will have on her. It's not just sex. It's her giving seomthing very special of herself to you in a very intimate way. So, talk to her about it. Do some research. But, wait until she is ready. And, don't force it. Hell man. Get married to her first. That would be the right thing to do. Just because most of society is filled with a bunch of hooey and non-sense about how you need sex in your life or you're not normal. Ha. It's ok to take things slowly. Don't feel that your relationship isn't going anywhere if that is how you feel. Think about this. IF you get her pregnant (it could happen) you are young and so is she. But your youth goes away when that child is born and so does hers. No college because you'll have to get a job to support the kid. Not saying it's going to happen. But, bet you didn't think about that did you?

This is something that you should be discussing with your girlfriend, not strangers. You should be able to communicate your feelings with her, and being together that long. You think that she might be ready because she lets you touch her breasts? Sex is a lot more indepth than that, besides your relationship seems to be surviving just great without it...so why complicate it? Trust me, sex WILL change your relationship, and having premarital sex usually ends in heartache for young teens. I suggest if you dont want her to think you just want sex, maybe you should wait until shes ready, and brings up the subject.

I think, she could just be horny... Im not sure if she truly wants to have sex. But you never know, My girlfriend let me do that to her. She let me grab her boobs and her butt and everything, but she's let me know clearly that she doesn't want to have sex until she's married. Again, I think my girlfriend is just horny too... Lol, Maybe, if you feel comfortable enough, ask her about this kind of stuff... I asked my girlfriend and she took it very well. Also, maybe she's letting you do that because she truly loves you and trusts you doing that with her.

yeah then she's horny.she's the innocent type who want to wait till marriage.she's ready but scared.

but angelfire has a point.sex is an emotional thing.

Seems like you're both ready. Just think over the possible consequences.