Is she hiding something?

I am technically still going with this girl who I want to break up with but don't know if I should! When she and I are around her friends she wants to act as if she doesn't want me around but then when we are alone she wants to be all over me. then she told me not to tell anyone that we go together. so does that mean she may be hiding a secret and that I shouldn't trust her or what?

Hi,
The fact is you should confront her on this, tell her how you feel. That you are sick of being pushed aside. If she did love you she would tell everyone. I don't know if she is hiding something or not but, it sorta sounds like it. If you want to break up just tell her that you can't take it and that you need to move on to someone else.

no maybe she just thinks that she is to good for u

If you feel like you're being pushed down by her, or feeling neglected, tell her how you feel. You probably don't deserve a woman like that! I have a friend like that, and she will put me down to the ultimate low around our other friends, just to make herself feel better. Its really stupid!

I get mad a lot because when just me and her hangout, we're totally cool! And we have so much in common then! But when we're with other friends, I feel like she thinks they're better than me.

Biggest thing to do is tell her what you feel like. I told my friend, and she stopped doing it. She paid way more attention to me instead of paying attention to putting me down. So if you still like her a lot, tell her how you feel, and hopefully it works.

Remember, communication is key. Hope I helped, pet!

well if she doesnt want anyone to know about the two of you then I think she is hiding something. if the word goes out that you two are together and she's hiding any secrets from you someone might just tell you them. I say you should just stop whatever you are doing with her and go on and find someone else. she obviously is not that great of a girl and doesnt deserve you.