Is one type of cheating worse than another?

Hi, I feel very confused. I have been married for almost 7 years..my husband has never been honest about things with me. He doesnt satisfy me sexually. I cant imagine life without him, we have always been very good friends. my problem is I have recently...

been having phone sex with someone I met on line. It is strictly fantasy, no chance of ever meeting. I told my husband, but I dont think I am ready to stop. I am not sure why I told him. I dont know what to do. How do you know when to call it quits and when to lay everything aside and work on your marriage? I have two kids. If it were up to me I would stay married for the kids, but have us do are own thing..he wont hear of that! Any advice would be great, thanks.

Talk to him... if he wants it to work he has to make an effort to be honest with you... lies are very bad in a relationship and if you don't be honest with each other then its hard to be happy... because you are always going to wonder is he/she telling the truth? Sex is the least of your worries at this point... i mean yes a good sex life in a marriage is very important... but your sex life is easy to improve if you communicate... try things new... talk to each other of what your fantasies are... It seems to me that is what you are lacking most is good commuication ... if you want to make it work... you need to speak your mind and lay it out on the table... if you still have love and he still has love... then there is nothing you two can't say to each other to tear you apart.
In regards to your phone sex, this should stop if you want any chance of making this work you are only digging yourself a bigger hole...

Good luck.
jason