Is my husband cheating?

Ok I dont know what to do when my husband was showering his phone lit up so I checked it I never look at his phone and I saw a message that said goodnight babe I love you and that upset me a lot reading that the number is an out of state number do you think anything is going on? I know I sound stupid asking that but im confused I dont know how long this has been going on im also 18 weeks pregnant with his baby so I dont know what I should do should I leave or is he just talking to her and thats it I dont know what to do with the baby coming and all I dont want to stay with him if he is cheating it hurts to know that some other women is telling him she loves him and is he telling her back I dont know!!! help me figure something out please

Elicia

you have the advantage now, use it. you know something that he doesn't know you know. set him up, ask questions you allready know the answer to. personally though I would have called the number myself.

I agree. *69 the number so your number remains anonymous. something similar happened to a friend of mine who was married. she made one of her friends call the number pretending to ask for someone.. she was too nervous to do it.

and yes, ask him questions. I know a lot of girls even myself sometimes..I call my friends 'babe' but I never text them goodnight especially if theyre married!! and less I LOVE YOU? thats too weird... check it out. best of luck hon <3

Thank you guys I managed to get the number but im to scared to call im afraid to find out the truth you know

My first thing I would have done is check the sent messages to see if he sent anything to her because after you bring it up to him he could erase them before you check. But, if you already brought it up to him its too late to do that because he probably already erased it. Second thing I would have done is write down the number and either while he was in the shower called her and asked who she was or later. I'm assuming you didnt do that but if you can get the number some how I would call her. It is really sad that girls have to do this stuff but when people are shady you cant just ask them and expect the truth. But I guess if its too late for all of that you should ask him. However whatever he says make him prove it. You may think you are being controlling or he may say that but that is very sketchy so you have a right. Tell him to call her from the house and you be on another phone. Ask him to say to her why did you send me that text message or something like that tell him he has to say something like that or else you wont believe him. Say if she really is just whatever he says she is then prove it!