Is my girlfriend cheating?

I'm dating this girl. Ok and evry single time I call her she doesn't awnser or sometimes she says she's busy. But one time I was looking at her cell phone and my number wasn't in it. But she had it. it was in a different name and it didnt say my name it said jake. And my number was there. But that wasn't my name. Than one time I went to her house and someone called her phone she awnsered. she told me to go in the basement. I don't know if she's cheatin but it soundz like it and I don't know. All my friends are telling me to dump her because they once saw her at the mall shopping with this guy. And I don't know what I should do? So please give me some help.

I'm sorry to say this but she probably is cheating, but just incase you might want to confront her, tell her that this is very important and that you really want to know where this relationship is going and if shes serious. Then ask her about cheating, if she would ever. Then just tell her the things that you've been seeing/hearing and it seems like shes cheating. Just see how she reacts to this conversation and her answers, but she's most likely cheating.

well ask her up front see what she sez

ask her and if she says no just take a closer look. I don't mean spying on her but just do something like have a freind ask her out because the way your question was asked, it feels like she's cheating on you.

tell her to tell you or your going to get one of your ''girls'' to kick her ass..It worked on me

Just ask If she is you dont need her

well, I think yu should hold onto her and if you really love her, dont give up easily. BE A FIGHTER!!!

you really arent sure if she is or isnt cheating, just let a friend of hers loyal enough to you, try and find out!! REmember, the fact and thought that she is cheating is an assumption and prediction, but also remember it is ONLY an assumption, all right? Don't blame her without making sure!!!! if you really love her, stick to her and try to win her back!

I absolutely agree with yasminmah

shes blatantly shaggin around so you gotta make urself better if you realy do love her. pay loads of attention to her but if she sez shes going out just let her and dont be bothered about it or intrested in where shes going be better in the bedroom and eventually if you keep gettin better and if she is cheatin on you she wont need anybody else and if she isnt cheatin on you your still makin her happy

ok listen to this. my boyfriends papa (grandfather) does this thing ALLL of the time, to where he doesnt know but he makes you rat on your self. so just like.. say you know something is going on with another guy.. just like make her confess to you shes cheating on you.

well man I have the same prob see my girlfriend told me that she is going out to the moves with her best friend Jordan and she sayed that nothing is going to happen that everything is going to be ok he is just my friend and we need to catch up becouse I havent seen him so long and im like so when are you going how old is he how do I know you are going to be ok and she is dont worry your OVER REACTING so what im thinkin of doin is asking one of her friends to keep an eye on her and make shure that it isnt so but if it is ill break up with her even if it breaks my heart in time wounds heal and you learn to let go of the things that you love!!

Helll yeahhh. Man first of all I hope you didn't go in the basement. If so your a lil wuss Lol. just kidding. Ight here's the best advice your going to hear eva. Ready set leave her asss. I wish my girl would save me in her phone as someone else. Its like she's hide and it from her other friend. Man that's what I would do. But bottom line is, call it a quits.